I met this guy 8yrs ago we had a brief relationship for maybe 3 months I cared more for him then he did me. It was basically a sex relationship . Only thing we really did together was have sex I thought more of the relationship he use to bring around his other female friends. He says he has changed and wants to start a new relationship with me but I dont want to get hurt anymore I actually affraid that all it will be is a sex relationship again. I went to his house last week and we sat down and talked about getting back together and I told him how i felt about the last relationship he said that I was wrong that he was in love with me also but he also tried to get me to spend the night but I left and went home
2006-11-27 10:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by funnecee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want to and you still have feelings for him.
2006-11-27 10:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants the sex again. If you are truly interested, go out and meet him out somewhere. Drive separately and just try going out and doing things together. Don't go home with him or meet him at his house. If he is truly interested in a relationship rather than just some good lovin, he shouldn't complain. If he is all about just getting some, then he will lose interest and move on. It isn't easy...but you have to ask yourself if he is worth the risk.
2006-11-27 18:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance, but tell him upfront NO SEX until you are positive that he really cares for you as a person. After you've been dating for a month or two, if you feel ready, allow sex back into the relationship, but not before you are POSITIVE that you can handle it.
2006-11-27 18:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try, but most likely it will not work out. And not because he might hurt you again. The thing is, YOU have changed too. Both of you had changed.
2006-11-27 18:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is an easy one. If your desired to pursue a relationship is greater then the fear of it not working out then go out with him, if it is not then dont.
2006-11-27 18:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love with you but could live without you for 8 yrs? Come on honey, you are not that dumb!
2006-11-27 18:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your gut. I don't think most people really change like that. He wanted you to stay? How bad? Your call.
2006-11-27 18:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by dukes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never go backwards.always go forward to newer and better things.he sounds like you are a booty call to him and I am glad you did not give in to him.good girl,be patient because some one better is on his way and you won't want to be tied up with this loser.,trust me.
2006-11-27 18:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past and we should never live in the past . your future is in your own hands , no one here can tell you what is wrong or rigth only you can do that and i bet you already know the answer to that . good luck
2006-11-27 18:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a go but at any hint of him being hes old self then leve him and find someone you can have a real conection with
2006-11-27 18:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by smc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all he wants is sex. guys don't wait for 8 years. so until sex is what you want, don't get back with him.
2006-11-27 18:30:27 · answer #11 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋