my boyfriend makes several trips to Tennessee every month.i think he's been cheating on me over there.he doesn't call anymore(for over 5 months)He goes to the same school as me and all my friends say he has been putting his arm one of my friends even that girl said it did happen.what should i do break up with him?
2006-11-27 09:55:03 · 19 answers · asked by ·.·•ς๏ς๏•·.· 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, break up with him.....you're wasting your time!
2006-11-27 10:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't spoken in 5 months, I would say he has already broke it off with you. He just failed to share the info with you. Sounds as if he is frail and couldn't face you. Even if there wasn't another girl, you would have to suspect it is, was, and has been over for awhile now. I am sorry he has done you this way. Move on, don't even worry about closing things with him, he'll find out when he sees or hears of you being with a real man. GL!
2006-11-27 18:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, If I'm reading this right, he hasn't talked to you in 5 months. Um. Let me put it to you this way: I have a platonic male friend that I see maybe an average of once every five years, and we talk more than that. I'd be curious to find out what qualifies this person as your boyfriend if he never communicates with you? Communication is the backbone of any good relationship.
2006-11-27 17:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't know how to handle a situation where you are being ignored,then you don't need to be in a serious relationship at all,you don't sound too sound to me. A little growth is needed here.Get on with out him and learn from how you are being treated so you will recognize this shallow treatment if it appears again in another relationship.
2006-11-27 18:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good solution to this is to point blank ask him. His answer will give you what you need to know even if he is lying. What I mean by this is you have an instinct that us woman are blessed with. Use it. You will know truly in your heart the truth. If it becomes your worst fear, don't freak out. That just means he is not the one for you and the one for you is still waiting. This will happen for a reason. Believe me, you will see
2006-11-27 17:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by luv_tyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if your friend admits he was placing her in a situation that could be proclaimed as cheating then if you also feel he has been disloyal then you should just think very carefully. If you feel he is disloyal then you should just break it off. Be the one who ends it and don't let the cheater end it.
2006-11-27 18:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by charleston_chic_323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he does...move on. It does not sound like much of a relationship if he has not called you in 5 months.
2006-11-27 17:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by broj7400 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of whether or not he is cheating, if you don't trust him, don't stay around. You will always be haunted by the thought of him cheating on you and never will you be comfortable. The whole objective of relationships is trust, and if that is gone, there is no need to continue.
2006-11-27 17:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by originalwhale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much more do you have to hear or see or feel to believe that he's cheating? Maybe he's not cheating, maybe he's just not happy in this relationship anymore, I'd move on, life's to short to be unhappy.
2006-11-27 17:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! He hasn't called you in 5 months? I'm sorry to say it but I think he has already broken up with you. Its time to move on.
2006-11-27 18:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by christina r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be playing you. What you need to do is catch him in the act. Unexpectedly. Get his routine down, then BAM!!!! Walk right up on him. That might help you out.
2006-11-27 17:59:23 · answer #11 · answered by Da Mick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋