My boyfriend and i were in a fight/argument and at one point he said that he feels like im asking him to change certain things about him and i said that I loved him and wasn't just telling him that certain things upset me and trying to get him to lessen the frequency of them.
Anyways this is the first time either of us said that they loved the other. He didn't respond pos. or neg. about me saying it and we were on the phone so no i have no reaction..
is it likely that its because we were arguing and he didnt want to change subject or wasnt ready to say it.. or is that a bad sign?
2006-11-27 09:45:42 · 8 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh men or women that have been there.. if he doesnt feel the same would he say something about it?
he makes jokes about love sometimes. he's also hard to open up.
oh we're in our 20s since i know people ask about age alot
2006-11-27 09:47:43 · update #1
let him have some time to settle down and cool himself and talk to him again
2006-11-27 09:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing about a guy. If he loves you, he's gonna tell you. If he needs time or whatever, that's fine, but he will tell you if he feels it. I think you should avoid saying anything or bringing it up in any way and just give him a couple weeks. If he still doesn't say anything, just sit down with him and say "You know, I slipped and said I love you a couple weeks ago and I just wanted to make sure that was ok, just in case I slip again" and see what he says. His reaction should indicate where he's at.
2006-11-27 09:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we as women know that we are the first ones to say the "L" word. If he's feeling the same then you'll know. Actions speak louder than words even though words help too. Just talk to him. Communication is always key.
2006-11-27 09:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by isis_osiris13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we won't be able to recognize what she change into wondering. You do favor to sit and communicate which include her. although her situation is, it should be addressed so it will be labored with the help of. you may want to care about her judgements, yet that does no longer advise you'll continuously consider them. She needs to maintain in mind that too.
2016-10-07 21:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is feeling picked on and that you are wanting him to change without changing yourself (this is the problem with perception. He sees one thing when you see another)
I would find a neutral environment to talk things out
2006-11-27 10:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he heard what you said, but he was angry at you and didn't want to get off topic. Give him time and let him bring it up. If he loves you, he will tell you.
2006-11-27 09:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aah, young love. Makes my head hurt just thinking about it. Glad I'm old.
2006-11-27 09:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely a bad sign
2006-11-27 09:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋