How often should a guy call someone he's been dating for 1 1/2 months? Is every couple days ok? We don't go out on a regular basis (he has his kids every few days) but he tells me how much fun he has with me and compliaments me on my qualities (even introduced me to a few of his friends). We've been out on a couple dates, met up while we were both out at night, stopped my eachother's houses or had morning coffee...all which total up to over a dozen times....but he still doesn't call all the time. How can you tell if he's just taking it slow (as he said he did with his last relationship) or if he's not that interested? I'm used to the guys that call daily..though that was overkill for me...I would think that if he was very interested, he would make plans way ahead of time rather than a day or so!
2006-11-27 09:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you mention two things, calling every day, and plans ahead of time,,,,,,if he calls you a few times a week, he cares, like you said daily is a overkill,,,,,, also, calling daily doesnt reflect seriousness of emotion, or maturity,,, some who do the constant calling, want to see you every day, are actually less committed to you then others.... also, if you have seen each other a few dozen times in a month and a half, that sounds fine,,, as to making plans ahead of time, yes he should do that, also you can do that, make plans for something on monday, for the weekend, or this week for next week. while spur of the minute is ok sometimes, if a guy cares, he will make plans more in advance.. and not leave it as catch as catch can
2006-11-27 09:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's still calling you and making plans, then you're probably okay. He doesn't want to scare you away by calling every day. See where it goes. Or maybe stop waiting by the phone! If you aren't home a couple of times when he calls, he might start to get nervous and call more. It works for me every time :)
2006-11-27 17:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't believe that this guy isn't that into you based on what other psychos have shown you. Everyone is different. You know, have you considered how much YOU like this person? I mean, do you really want him calling you ALL the time? Sometimes, we have to be careful what we wish for. Get to know him a little more. You may be thankful in the end that the million phone calls and e-mails never started.
2006-11-27 17:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by allywally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your whole question but...
By now (I'm 41) I've learned that a man has to make me a priority.
If he doesn't... just let the wind take him where it will.
2006-11-27 17:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just taking things slow not wanting to rush into anything
2006-11-27 17:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like YOU want too much. Back off
2006-11-27 17:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you get old enough, you will know.
2006-11-27 17:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
MHZ HM HAMHUNG'S
2006-11-27 17:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋