a girl I work with has my attention.I flirt hard and have asked her out a few times and she's always busy with her kids.We have deep personal conversations and she always lights up when she sees me. Ive told her if she doesnt want the extra attention to just tell me and she says its ok. I cant seem to break her shell and I cant get any encouragement or discouragement. I like her alot, how long should I persue?
2006-11-27 09:38:58 · 6 answers · asked by sufferingnomad 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the flirting is totally sexually suggestive
and I have more pride than a stalker
2006-11-27 10:00:01 · update #1
you may have crossed the line from potential boyfriend to confidant and friend and she may not want to risk losing that. Show her that you have intentions of more than where you are (not just dates, but more suggestive flirting).. if not, then search elsewhere... You'll either find someone else who won't waste your time, or she'll realize that it's worth the risk..
2006-11-27 09:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Judi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should keep trying. After all, if you like her, and she apparently seems to like you, then there might be a future for the two of you. I say keep at it, because she might like the attention. Just don't become a stalker. Good Luck!!
2006-11-27 17:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by viperprincess07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stop. There are more "girls" out there in the world.
2006-11-27 17:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as she doesnt get annoyed
2006-11-27 17:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just not interested , dude
2006-11-27 17:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER YOU LOVE HER ! OR JUST FORGET ABOUT HER DONT FIGHT YOURSELF OVER ONE PERSON WHEN THERES PLENTY MORE CHANCES OUT THERTE BUDDY !!!!!!!
2006-11-27 17:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋