but she has a list of other guys she likes and i might be on it and she's to bashful to tell me. i think if i tell her it could ruin our frinedship but i want to tell her sooo bad HELP!
2006-11-27 09:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Elvis Fan,
In life, the things we live to regret are not the things we did . . . . . . . .it's the things we failed to do.
First of all, condition your mind to the fact that she might tell you she is not interested or not willing to commit.
Tell her how you feel, and only one of two things can happen, and we just discussed one of them, and I hope for your sake the other happens for you.
Consider this. she is bashful, and what if she is waiting for you to step up to the plate and be a man and tell her how you feel.
Her liking other guys may be her way of wanting to make you see that she is a real catch and could have others if she wanted.
I hope you are sincere about loving her very much, because if you are not, then you do not deserve her, and best to be a man and back off and avoid hurting her.
Remember, no guts . . . . . . . .no glory.
Darryl S.
2006-11-27 09:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get to know her better (if you don't already). See what she like to do; for example: if she like to hang out at the mall then maybe you can take her to the mall and tell her how you feel about her. Love knows no boundaries. If she does like you, or love you, then let her go out with those other boys but be behind her all the way. Show her that you care about her and when and if she makes the big discovery that you really liked her then she will come to you. Or...you can go up to her and tell her how you feel and if she decides to end the relationship(which I highly doubt) then at least you can say that you tried. But I don't think that she will end a friendship just because you have feelings for her. Well....it all depends on how long you've been friends with her.
2006-11-27 17:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by CompWiz56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, show her. Be the one she needs to be with, show her your love through the things you do and say. Don't be like the other guys, or you might be considered just another guy. Be innovative in giving her attention. Just call her up sometime and ask if there is anything she would like to do, and then invite her to do it with you. Think man, use your head to lead her heart in your direction. Make sure a day doesn't pass without you giving her some attention in some way. You are going to win her heart. I have a good feeling about that.
2006-11-27 17:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess if you dont tell her she will never know. I think that not being honest with her will eventually ruin your friendship because every other guy that she dates will give you reason to act different. Just tell her, maybe she feels the same.
2006-11-27 17:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends and nothing has happend, it most likely won't. How do you think she feels about you? Tell her you had a dream about the two of you and she how she reacts. Make it playful, don't seem to interested.
2006-11-27 17:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tellina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to lose her ? No Just straight up tell her or you'll be wondering the rest of your life what you could of had with her !!!
2006-11-27 17:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. don't be afraid. life is too short not to take chances. you will feel even worse if you don't tell her because you will never know how she feel about you unless you ask.
2006-11-27 17:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Living & Learning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's too bashful you are probably on it...Don't waste your friendship on something so stupid
2006-11-27 17:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by makelovenothate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is too bashful to tell you than you are probably on her list....so tell her!!!
2006-11-27 17:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love takes risks! if you really love this gurl you should be willing to take a risk
2006-11-27 17:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋