i like this guy at school....but he has no idea....he is sweet funny and nice to everyone....... but i dont get to talk with him that often because i am toooooo shy.......
p.s. on IM he blocked me and i dont know why
2006-11-27 09:34:41 · 31 answers · asked by CuRiOUs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no! i am not a stalker!!!
he doesnt have a problem sitting next to me in school. he is also shy 2
and i dont no how to get through to him when i say some thing to him and all he can do is nod
2006-11-27 10:04:42 · update #1
He doesn't want to be bothered with you... sadly to say.
2006-11-27 09:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by awesome 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he blocked you because he's also shy and is afraid of what to say if you talk to him. It's also possible that he isn't interested and would feel bad saying so, so he blocked you to avoid hurting your feelings. It's really tough to say without asking him.
I was shy too in school - but it's worth it to put yourself out there in take a chance. Otherwise you will always wonder what might have been, and that's never good. Try talking to his friends if that's easier, and get their opinions.
Good Luck!
2006-11-27 09:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jitterbug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1) Move on.
2) Get over being shy, approach him and say that you notice he blocked you on IM and you hope you haven't done anything to offend him. If he responds with negative feedback about you/your personality, learn from it, realize that it's not the end of the world and move on. If he didn't mean to, you've just started a conversation.
I'd personally go with Option 1.
2006-11-27 09:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Karen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Jay, but he is just not that in to you. Shy or not, he blocked you because he doesn't want to talk to you. Move on and find a guy that does like you. Best of luck dear. Nana
2006-11-27 09:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were anonymous online, i guess you have to get out of your closet & give him your chatname(ID). if he remembers blocking U & feel sorry about it, then he can unblock U & start anew. you can give alibis like you need to ask help about a homework, or anything under the sun that's diverse from your personal intention.
the dilemna is, if he knows that it was u that he blocked in the 1st place. if that;s the case, then pursuing him is just going to annoy him. unless you've tried that strategy b4 & it worked.
2006-11-27 09:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by enki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a stalker. He blocked you for a reason, and it doesn't matter if you know why. He doesn't want you around. If you don't just go away and move on, you are a stalker.
2006-11-27 09:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well Im guessing he blocked you cuz he didnt want to talk to you. Mabey hes not that nice. Find another guy to crush on
2006-11-27 09:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by heidi19852006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he blocked you I'm sure he knows already and unfortunetly he's not interested and its time to back off before he tells everyone your a stalker
2006-11-27 09:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds he doesnt like you. But if you think he does like you. Then talk to him about it. He might have a real reason.
2006-11-27 09:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont play hard to get and dont be shy thats a big turn off
2006-11-27 09:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by dan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend had the EXACT same problem.
And, unfortunately...
turns out she had annoyed the crap out of him, and, he disliked her for liking her.
But, he might just be shy like you.
Good luck.
:)
2006-11-27 09:39:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋