how do i move on?

Question

me and my boyfriend went out a month and 8 days (as stupid as that sounds) and i broke up with him but missed him and we got back together
then last night he broke up with me
because he was "sick of all of us"
i miss him so much
and i want to move on
or find a nice guy
i really am a loser
and i don't know why he went out with me
i'm nothing special at all
any advice?

by the way,
he was mean to my friends
and they partcially caused it
by making him mad
and me and him just talked
and it depressed me even more
i'm really in a deep hole right now

Answer 1

Yeah, stop putting yourself down and start loving yourself. Then others will find it easier to love you as well.

Answer 2

First and foremost - don't knock yourself. Everybody - and I do mean EVERYBODY - has something important about them. It may be a skill, it may be the ability to make another person feel happy, it could be anything, but never under-value the things that make YOU uniquely YOU.

It's very hard to get over losing someone, whether you're 13 or 53 or 103. As trite as it sounds, it really IS true that time heals all wounds. Give yourself time, get out with your friends, do things you enjoy, be outdoors as the weather permits. There's nothing that helps you get over a loss faster than seeing everything that's out there in the world, and all the amazing possibilities. Hang in there - it WILL get better!

Answer 3

GIRLFRIEND you sound SAD
PLEASE,PLEASE, PLEASE do me a favor ...Start Loving yourself and dont depend on a male to make you happy...Im sure you are beautiful, smart and kind and a bunch of other qualities. You shouldnt have to depend on anyone expecally a man to tell you this you should know this when you wake up every morning and when you look at yourself in the mirror. Im not telling you to be a conceidate 8itch, only you gotta know it for yourself. And please don't chase after his unapreciative AZZ if hes tired of you be sick & tired and done with him too. Surely once you've learned to love yourself then you will be attrative to the right kind of guys and you can make the choice of who you want to be with don't let these foolish little boys choose you. I tell my daughter boys come a dime a dozen and they really do. Second theres is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being single and happy.

Answer 4

What's wrong with you?

I only ask because obviously you're a horrible person inside and out if you have this low opinion of yourself, which I highly doubt you are. Chin up, you need to be with him to feel special? He must be like a superhero or something if he's that perfect (sarcasm).

C'mon girl, you need to find something to like about yourself. Even if you think you're absolutely nothing, you have to have at least one redeeming quality in your own eyes. Stick to that, show it to everyone, its something to be proud of and you could use a little pride. Don't define your worth through how much someone else likes you. Yeah, you'll get lonely sometimes, we all do, but don't you think you deserve to be happy instead of moping around over someone else?

Answer 5

It ain't easy Sara. Don't move on. Don't lose the feelings. Keep em warm. Give em a place in ur heart where they can be safe and loved. In time they will be memories u are thank full for. Its part of u for the rest of your live. It was an important relation for you . Find peace with it. Time will resolve but only if you DO NOT FIGHT it.

Answer 6

first of all you need to have a little faith not in god in your self budday (i don't feel like getting all biblical) yes a ment budday with an a , here's the deal it takes time to get over these types of things it's just something that you have to work though, i'm sure you are plenty special, if this guy thought so then why shouldn't you think so just do it to it budday you'll be fine you sound young so just keep on keepin on and you'll do fine

Answer 7

im in the same situation that you are nikka. My gf broke up with me and i want her back but she dont want that at the moment she wants me to earn respect back. I want to move on as well what i found out that helps is go out and have fun live it up. Party a lil it gets ur mind of things trust me who knows u may meet someone while your out. Good luck

Answer 8

You know what if he broke up with you because he didnt like you guys(whatever that means) do u think hes really worth it i mean come on!! At least now you know hes not the guy for you and the guy for you is out there waiting and trust me he will come and find you!

Answer 9

You are very special, and it's his loss. Don't ever talk about yourself like that!!! You sound young, and I promise there are plenty of guys out there that will treat you like a queen. Move on and get to know yourself before you worry about guys. You have plenty of time. Trust me, spend all the time you can with your girlfriends while you can. You will regret it if you don't. And YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!

Answer 10

baby girl, 1 month and 8 days??. if it didn't work out, with that short time spand, it's better for both of you guys to move on. yes, i'm sure you have some feeling for him, but trust me, in short time, you'll find someone new. or better yet, just enjoy being single. go out with your friends and have fun. don't worry about a thing. there'll be guys that you'll date and dump before you'll settle for the right one. just go and have fun for now.

Answer 11

Just go out have fun with freinds go meet new pepole don't just stay home thinking about him. He probaly hanging with his boyz anyway or out partying. Next time you see him act happy so that he think it did't bother you with he broke up with you. It get him thinking to. You not no loser it's plenty of shoes to pick out there you pick the one you like the best.