how can i stop guys from being so stupid in relationships?

Question

Is it possible to make a guy interested in the relationship

Answer 1

you can't. Men are funny creatures - a lot like wild dogs. you just have to hope that their heart overrides the panic reflex in their brain.
good luck my dear, i've been trying to figure them out for YEARS now!:)

Answer 2

Of course its possible. Thats why communication is key. You have to mmet each others needs and in doing so you can keep the relationship alive and well. But for a guy to not be interested, something is seriously wrong.

Answer 3

You can stop yourself from being involved in a stupid relationship. It is not your job to help them "see the light", grow up, or learn how to have a relationship. They will learn a valuable lesson when a great girl says "see ya later" and means it when they are being "less than"

Answer 4

You don't have a relationship with someone in spite of their faults. You have a relationship because of them. If you can't find a guy that's at your standards, don't bother dating him because he won't change, not enough for you anyways.

Furthermore, once he does change, you'll have no basis to your relationship since you based it on making him acceptable. Once he is, you'll move on to another imperfect guy because that's the kind of personality you have. There's nothing wrong with that, just realize that you'll never be in a meaningful relationship until you stop trying to fix guys faults and start accepting them.

Answer 5

not when your young, guy's take time to mature so boy's will be boy's, when they mature more they will be in a better position to be in relationships but right now sounds like the boy's (not yet men) are better in their comfort zone hanging with other boys, what's the rush to date, you have a long life in front of you, enjoy this time with friends, have fun and make some memories, trust these answers from us older people, we have already been down the road you are about to take
some advanced tips, when you do get in more serious relationships it all about each person giving and taking something to meet in the middle

Answer 6

first question u ask to prevent them from being stupid in relationship
and the second u ask to make them interested in the relation ship its contradiction but the answer is
its up to u
u can make guys respect u and never act as stupids with u
and also u can attract a guy to be in relation with if u really trust him and u feel good if u contenue with him

Answer 7

yeah it is very possible you just have to find the right guy who will appreciate every day they wake up they realize they get to be with you and worship the ground you walk on, but also let the relationship be healty enough to where you two arent dependent on each other cause then there is problems. you can send me an IM on yahoo and we can chat it up!!

Answer 8

u cant u just have to tell them that they r bein stupid and that is all u can do

if he really likes u he would listen on what u have 2 say but if he could care less about what u say then should u even be w/ that guy!!!

Answer 9

Unfortunately, you can't stop them...they have to want that on their own! Then and only then will they stop being immature! UNtil then...flat the f*ck out...don't deal with them! Berst of luck!

Answer 10

what is stupid?? Most guys are stupid in relationships but its only because they won't tell there girlfriend no and when she is being a bit*ch and needs slaped they don't!