i know that there are a lot of factores involved (like, why did you break-up in the first place) Very sad break-up. We both cried. He NEVER gave me any specific reason why he couldnt be with me anymore. He said he loves me and will love me forever. he also said that no matter what relationship he is in, he will ALWAYS still have sex with me ( i know, i know, please save the "you shouldnt sleep with your ex talk" )...but it is seriously the best sex EVER. He has been with his new girlfriend for a year. We have slept together about 20 times. He obviously wants to stay in his relationship, and he has made it VERY clear that he doesnt want to be with me (at least not right now)..we live 1,000 miles away too. my question is, once your apart from somebody for soo long, do you think it's easier or harder to get back together? do you think your odds are better? Could you fall back in love with somebody after you've moved on and found somebody else that you love?
2006-11-27 09:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want to go back to my hometown in a few months and put it all on the line...change my look, work on myself, EVERYTHING....and give him ONE last chance....tell him HOW much i love him and see what he will do..that's what i want to do...but am i just wasting my time???
2006-11-27 09:26:24 · update #1
Ok, let me see if I have this. This dude has said flat out he doesn't want a relationship with you. And he is with somebody else. But he will still bone you? What don't you get? The guy wants you as his side salad, girl, nothing more. Why do you want someone who is going to cheat in a relationship anyway? You have self esteem issues if you are thinking of changing your appearance for this guy. Wake up and get a real man and not this loser. If you do have one more night with him, make sure you bring chunky peanut butter and a dog. Dim the lights. Put the peanut butter on his balls and tell him it's whipped cream. Then let your dog take a bite out of crime, girl.
2006-11-27 09:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to invest in a good vibrator, and tell him that you won't have sex with him anymore. He has a girlfriend who doesn't know he's cheating and you are the "other woman." It works out great for him. He can have sex whenever he's in town, but no one will ever find out because he lives too far away! Don't try to get him back. He's a cheater! You deserve SOOO much better than that. Pick up the pieces and move on. There's a whole world of men out there.
2006-11-27 09:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down, I think you ALREADY know the answer to your question, but you want someone out here to tell you it's OK to do what you're doing--IT ISN'T! This guy is playing you big time and feels you're so gullible he can get away with it. Hey, if I were him I would probably want this same arrangement. Gee, the sex is great, now get lost, I've got someone I like more. But don't worry, I'll always come back to you for a little "extra" then I'll kick you back to the curb where you belong.
Get a backbone, find some self-esteem , and tell him goodbye forever
2006-11-27 09:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by dennis k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he left you without giving you a reason. Let me clue you in to what the reason was. He found somebody else he wanted to date. Why in the world would you want to go back with him. Besides him leaving you for no good reason he is now a cheat. You should leave the past in the past especially when its with someone who is currently cheating on his gf. Any time I have ever gone back with someone I broke up with it never worked.....that's why it didn't work the first time.
2006-11-27 09:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy only wants sex that is all he wants
'nuff said
2006-11-27 09:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋