I was seeing this guy for around 5 months we were spending about once a week together because his work and he lived in another town...I really liked him but he never told me how he felt about me and would break dates with me (he said it was work related), I tried to break things off with him several times and he kept trying to make it work...finally the last time he broke a date I had enough and broke it off with him...he continued to text me stupid random stuff...and asking how I was doing...we then spoke again...but it just ended up in an argument...this Thanksgiving he text me again!!!...my question is...is he just trying to string me along and play games or does he care about me and trying to find a way back in...he tells me he still wants to be friends but I dont see how this will ever work...being that I dont really trust him...should I tell him again to LOSE my number??? What should I do???
2006-11-27 09:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u don't trust him, then don't get into any relationship.... You can agree to be friends and then slowly fade out....:-)
2006-11-27 09:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always know the answer to out own questions. He is doing whatever your gut is telling you he is doing. I would venture to say it is telling you he is stringing you along. Dating is not that complex, and I don't know why we (men and women) make it this way. I cannot tell you how many of these conversations me and my girls have a week. My advice would be to tell him what you want and expect. Either he can agree and you two try out a meaningful relationship. Or he can disagree and you two go your separate ways. Just remember you are most important in the situation and your first loyalty to be to yourself and what is healthy for you. Men do who and what they truly want! My initial recommendation would be to get that fool out of the way so that the right one can come along. BUT you know best. Be strong!
2006-11-27 17:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, I will tell you this most valuable advice. A man who is interested in you, will move heaven and earth to be with you, will not break a date (only in an emergency) and will not repeatedly violate your trust or faith in him. He will NEVER let you feel you are last on his things to do list and you will always feel that he thought of you first. Anyone doing this repeatedly is well, to put it bluntly, just isn't into you. His actions speak for him louder than his words ever will or should! Sorry, waste no more time on this one! Good luck!
2006-11-27 17:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him to lose your number. If you go back to hanging out with him before long he will start doing the same things. If he really liked you to begin with he wouldn't be breaking plans.
2006-11-27 17:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him, did you ever think that maybe he only sees you once a week is cause he has a family to go home to? maybe you're the girlfriend on the side . . .
2006-11-27 17:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by smarty pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋