Will my girlfriend eventually love making love?

Question

Good day everyone!
My girlfriend didn't know if she was gay because she has only been in relationships with girls until she met me and she told me she likes being with a guy. Our relationship is very stable and loving. Anyways, her and I tried making love this past Friday and of course she had never done this before and I have had expierences. She never had ANYTHING inside her, no fingers, tampons etc. So as we were trying she did feel pain and because I care so much about her I go slow and if the pain hurts I freeze and while she laid on her back it hurt but when she turned sideways it didn't but she said she gets no feeling from it....I'm wondering when she is fully stretched and we work it out that it will eventually feel great for her?? I'm wonderding if it's possible she can't get anything from sex or it's just because she isn't used to it. Any help is greatly appreciated.

Thank you all for your answers so far, Yes, I made her *** 5 times through oral sex and twice using just my fingers on her clit. She gets very wet and thats not a problem at all! I was in a 5 year relationship before this one I have alot of expierence and studied kama sutra and I want to get all the amazing benefits from my knowledge of sex and I truly love her with all my heart and I don't care how long it takes so she enjoys it but im just wondering if she will. She told me she had alot of fun trying and she also understands it may take a while to get used to and she was never opposed to not doing it. When she was with girls she only did oral and nevr had fingers in there. Thats what I started with, the pinkie and moved up slowly and until then nothing had been in there so I can imagine that is what the problem is because she is affectionate towards me and loves being with me and I think the problem was her lack of expierence being with a guy and this is just new.

Answer 1

Does she get wet? If not, use some lube. It is hard to believe that she has never had anything in her vaginal. I know a lot of lesbians and they are always using fingers and dildos.

If the girl isn't "worked up" enough to produce the lubrication and you aren't using any, it will hurt. Do you know what you are doing? Does she get wet with girls and not men. There is something to think about.

Answer 2

She is a lesbian and won't change. Except for the lesbians around here who are militantly gay one month and not gay the next. I call it confusion and going through a phase. There are the real gay people and the ones who don't know. I don't think they are 100 percent straight, either, but they are just young and searching out the world.

She sounds like she doesn't care for sex with men. You have to like sex with men to want sex with men and if she doesn't, then she is gay or completely disinterested. I ought to know. Inspite of the hell that some men have put me through, I still like them, and after all the offers to get with women I've received, I haven't let the ruler go crooked. Still as straight as an arrow.

Answer 3

The first time can be painful but she still should have gotten some pleasure from it. Did she feel pleasure when you were touching her? Does she get turned on by you at all? If the answer is no then you are not what blows her skirt up.

Answer 4

Well, if she had no experience on sleeping with men, it's natural that all her feelings has come down on deep inside her. You should bring those feeling up to her by several romantic sex till she feels that she is a woman.

Answer 5

First, congratulations on making her switch teams. I suggest that you practice your skills as a cunning linguist. That is what she is mainly used to. Only once she is at the height of ecstasy should Mr. Happy make an appearance.

Answer 6

The best thing to do is give her time and space. If you wait long enough she will call you. You could try and text message her or send her a email or call her and talk to her in person away from where she lives. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Well she was a virgin so the first few times are really uncomfortable....but since you have experience that will help. Just make sure to give her lots of clitoral stimulation, which will help her achieve orgasm. Good Luck and Happy humping!!

Answer 8

do a lot of foreplay to turn her on and get her ready (like 20 minutes should be enough). kiss her all over except that area for a long time, and tease her for a while.

Answer 9

it might hurt if she's a virgin. maybe she loves you but not in the sex way. a lot of sex pleasure comes from the mind.

Answer 10

Everyone's first time usually hurts. It will go away and she will enjoy it. Don't worry it is normal.