i have a big family and im scared to talk to any1 about my feelings iv had a rough two years and i sometimes hate the way my life is .. and i have a son i love him to bits im always with him during the week and then when its the weekend i have to go out with my mates...... and example my mum went on at me last nite saying i should have stayed in with my son and he was at a friends.. she fair made me feel like a bad mother..
2006-11-27 09:14:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look you obviously are secure in your relationship with your son. Sometimes family isn't really constructive to your self esteem, just forget them. they don't live in the day-to-day life with your son and therefore don't totally know how you raise him. As long as the two of you are happy, healthy, and functioning. No worries.
2006-11-27 09:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you become a mother the mother should give her child lots of care and attention, because who ever the child is raised w/ the child will grow close to that person. Children need lots or nurturing and when they grow up, it will pay up. And a mother needs to be really responsible! not leave her kid else where. If your mom told you all this its for a reason, she's a mom herself and she knows better.. trust me! it doenst mean she doenst care or understand, she wants you to be there for your son.
2006-11-27 17:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Become a better person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you're going to have to figure out on your own. That child is now or should be a major priority. What others say, good or bad, is ultimately immaterial. What you say, in your heart, determines an outcome.
2006-11-27 17:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had a rough time with family too. i never told them anythinkg, and i ended up getting in trouble and did some bad stuff. after talking to my parents about EVERYTHING they started acting alot better. just talk to your mom about stuff and things will be better. trust me. i know from experience
2006-11-27 17:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing ur mom is the old fashioned type that always cooked and cleaned and stayed home. HELLO! it the 21st century and moden women can be both good moms and fun lovers
2006-11-27 17:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your not a bat mother. you need time to do the thing you want to do. ....but you should be more careful cence you have a son.he could get someone in to a lot of trouble
2006-11-27 17:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by snailmonkey2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about your actions and talk to those who you are close with. Maybe they can get you some ideas and help you rethink yourself.
2006-11-27 17:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋