husbands old gf saw my husbands profile on my space(we both have one) and sent him a private msg and he responded.you could tell she still had a interest in him and he avoided any talk of me.i should have waited and let things play out to see what would have happened but after a week i had to say something to him.he played it off as no big deal but as soon as he was alone he deleted his account that he had for mons.when i asked him about it he said it was like a dating sight and all these people were sending him private msgs so he wanted out.my question is how come it never bothered him before and why would he not tell me he was chatting with his ex.this may look innocent but he has a history of cheating with this person.she broke-up his last marrage so this is why i'm concerned.
2006-11-27 08:44:28 · 6 answers · asked by jakievincent07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes.
2006-11-27 10:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be concerned. Also, get one of the programs that you can plug into computer and see what sites he is visiting.
If you have his pass word download his account on myspace and look at history. He can erase these accounts , also look and see if he has instant msg.
Good luck and God Bless!!
just went through this with my new husband it hurts.
2006-11-27 09:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Seriously - if you have to ask then the obvious is true. If he wasn't doing something he shouldnt have you would not be asking your self this.The thing is, its not wrong to keep in touch with an ex .but why is he not telling you and avoiding the issue,obviously hes hiding something.Sort it out ,because a good marriage can not be sustained on doubts
2006-11-27 09:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by kiki_freelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy to me. I'd be concerned too. Maybe you should do a search for him to see if he opened a different account. My guy talks to an old friend of his that had a crush on him and has always disliked me. He doesn't speak of me to her, but I know he is not interested in her. Of course, he doesn't know that I've checked his MySpace. ;)
Wish I could be of more help to you.
Good Luck!
2006-11-27 09:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by KBGood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned! I mean come on...if he actually deleted his account after you said one thing? I don't know, but he's probably up to something!
2006-11-27 08:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Alisono 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch out, she is meddling in your affairs.
2006-11-27 09:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋