she just had sex with a guy friend. He was drunk, and convinced her to do it. Now, she feels so guilty and awful about it. She's at college, and I don't know what to do to help. What can I do?
2006-11-27 08:41:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a lot you can do if she is away at college. But hopefully she has learned not to be so gullible and not allow every guy to come into her life to con her into dropping her drawers.
2006-11-27 08:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should comfort her by talking to her and telling her that it is okay. People mess up and do mistakes all the time. No one is perfect. She will eventually over come her feelings and be normal again. At first she will be experiencing some of that stuff emotionally, but just talk to her and ease her soul. Don't blame her for being stupid, and don't yell at her because that would only make things worst.
2006-11-27 08:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her and explain that if she had sex when she was drunk is not her fault. Also ask her if the suposst guy friend was drunk because if he wansn't he is not a friend.
2006-11-27 08:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by la_salvadoreña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should feel guilty. Talk to her about what she did wrong and then hopefully she should feel better. Is the guy friend really worthy?
2006-11-27 08:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a grown up. Nothing anyone can do. She shoud have learned to not give in to peer pressure.
2006-11-27 09:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to see a councilor at the school... they are trained to help exactly that.
and to you... just pray for her... and listen when she cries... hold her when she needs it.
you're an awesome sister caring so much... keep it up.
2006-11-27 08:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by bluebelly83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend and tell her to get checked chances are he didn't use a condom. then ask her to tell you in details; was it lig, did it hurt would you do it again!!
2006-11-27 08:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not her fault cause the guy made her do it.
2006-11-27 08:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that everything will be alright
2006-11-27 08:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to grow up and get over it... it happens...
2006-11-27 08:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋