Since my break up, I am not ready to settle down. They are all good for going out and having fun. With one that is all I want to do with him. One is good for cuddling, he is the one I do boyfriend things with. One is there just for pleasure. All of the men know that they are not the only one in my life. They don't know how many or what I do with the others. I was told that I am wrong by my friend. Just asking your opinion. Thanks.
2006-11-27 08:41:18 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh.... i should clarify. The man I do boyfriend things with is the only one I am sleeping with. All of the men know I am dating other men. If I were to get serious, I would tell them all. Thanks for all the responses.
2006-11-27 12:02:10 · update #1
I think you're okay. Your friend is just jealous that she doesn't have as many men after her. Plus you're single, the guys know that they aren't number one. At least you're being honest with them. You have no obligation to explain your relationships with other men to them either. Do you girl.
2006-11-27 08:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by supernaturaldj2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, as long as the guys know that they're not the only one, there is nothing wrong with what you're doing. It would only be wrong if you were lying to them or leading them on to think that there was romance or something there when you knew there wasn't. You only live once, and you need to do what makes you happy. Don't try to hurt people in the process, but in the end you're really the only one that matters! Have fun while you can! There's plenty of time to settle down later.
2006-11-27 08:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not wrong as long as the other guys know that they are not the only one. Now it is wrong to keep them in the dark about how many and if you start to get serious with one of them and dont tell the others or leave them alone. What if the shoe was on the other foot, truly how would you feel? don't write a check you can't cash.........
2006-11-27 08:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No youre not wrong because you are dating them not having them as boyfriends. They are friends with benefits and as far as im concerned that is the best way to go if youre single. You get everything a couple has with out any of the commitments. Try not to have too many though, then you cant focus. Just have enough to meet your needs and youll be alright.
2006-11-27 08:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong when it comes to relationships except lying, cheating, stealing, and hitting. You're upfront, there's nothing wrong. As long as everyone is agreeing with the actions, there is nothing wrong and it is not cheating or lying.
But, you must understand that none of these guys are going to commit long term with you, based on your actions. And if they do, they won't take your relationship seriously. I know that's not what you're looking for right now, but remember this for the future.
2006-11-27 08:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women try this because they imagine they're the biggest element interior the international to a guy. They ignore about our desires, and initiate being egocentric and needy when we are no longer giving them our finished interest.
2016-10-16 10:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by knudsen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For as long they know that you are just using them, then I would say great! Sarcastically, though I would say you have a great arrangement. If those fellas are actually aware that you are using them like that then they are wimps and deserve what is coming to them.
2006-11-27 08:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chimango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called playing the field and there's nothing wrong with it, who said you have to try out just one at time anyway.
2006-11-27 08:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by LuvFlwr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all the guys know that they're not your only partner and they're ok with it, then I suppose it would be ok, though you should also tell them the extent of the relationship with the other guys.
2006-11-27 08:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Alex T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of reputation you want. let the cuddler know you have someone else for pleasure and he wont ever be that guy, or your probably leading him on
2006-11-27 08:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋