Okay, this sounds weird but, my friend hooked me and her Ex up. they have been goin out for 2 weeks, and she had dumped him 2 times.
It has been about a month now that me and him have been together.
She really hurt him.
I knoe that he really liked her and maybe even loved her, but im not sure if him dating me is because he wants to be with me, or because he is just putting me in her place.
Me and her do sorta look alike.
I love him, i really do, but when he tells me he loves me ,(he told me he loved me first) is is it me he is saying that to, or is it maybe her?
Maybe im just paraniod..
how can i ask him without making it into a big deal?
PLEASE HELP!
2006-11-27 08:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is probably u he is saying it to but if you are really not sure ask him "Do you really mean it?" when he says i love you again. It takes a lot of courage but you can do it. maybe he is going to get your friend jealous...... idk
2006-11-27 08:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date a guy after you girlfriend you are setting yourself up right there!!!
what if your with him for years to come, then when everyone get drunk you have worry about them lusting over each other or sexing? people do change there mind later.
one month and saying I love you is too soon. I think all of that happened to fast, he may have feeling for her that he is not sure about,yet.
what you need to do is talk to him and ask him what he feeling look him in the eyes and watch his body movement when he answers you and you will have an idea if he is lying to you.
never take your friends left overs!!!
2006-11-27 08:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.
2006-11-27 08:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, if he is a psycho boy than maybe he is replacing you with her.
You two looking alike is not really relevent, chances are he will date a lot of girls who look something alike if he has a type he is going for.
If he said he loved you than I think it is okay to ask if he is really into you or into her. You two should be close enough then that a question about his feelings is not out of line.
2006-11-27 08:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you shouldnt have been with him in the first place. the fact youre going out with your friends ex. ***** up your friendship. and ***** him up too. technically your relationship shouldnt have happened because the feelings can be confusing.
2006-11-27 08:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's using you, to get to her.
Find someone better!
2006-11-27 08:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur rite he cud want to be with her there guys wut do u expect they don;t care they just want hot girls even if they do they don't care as much as they do about sex and other girls they think r hot they're guys they're tht way and we can't change them but we don't have to take their bs and date those stupid pervs!! lol
2006-11-27 08:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to say yes
2006-11-27 08:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋