Anyway, I'm a very young 50-something, and hit it off well on the internet and phone with this guy a few years younger than me. Had a date and he doesn't call me back. Just 'cause I had to go home early when we got back to his place?!? I mean, please! My son was sick. What's with these guys?!? The guys my age are 50 going on 75! It was all hot and heavy on the internet and the telephone, and then...nothing. I guess I thought I'd be more attracted.
2006-11-27 08:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by gale h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My son is 15 and he had 102 fever.
2006-11-27 10:04:17 · update #1
It sounds as if you had a hot and heavy thing going online and on the phone (cyber and/or phone sex?). When you do that with a guy (most guys, anyway), and you plan on a hot and heavy night, naturally he's going to be disappointed and even feel rejected if you don't follow through.
Not that you can predict physical chemistry. There are times I've felt 'chemistry' over the phone or computer, and then ZAP... nothing... when we met in real life. You can just never tell.
But my guess is that when you said you needed to get home to your son, he thought to himself that you just weren't attracted to him at that point, especially if he knew your son is 15. A 15 year old boy with 102 fever can take care of himself for one night, or at least a few hours, especially if you're that intereseted in having sex. So it probably also seemed a little transparent to him as well. Once when I was out on a date, the woman's friend called her on her cell phone and told her she had to come over. I forgot exactly what it was for, but my feeling was that it was a little feeble. I think that people (immature people, likely) have an 'out' of sorts, where if a date's not going well, they'll have a friend call, or something like that, so there's a ready-made excuse to get out of there.
Did you ever get back to him? We guys can't do ALL the work, you know!
If you're as youthful as you sound, don't sweat it. There will be plenty of opportunities. Just make sure you have your priorities straight. Physical relationships don't usually last very long and become pretty empty if there aren't any feelings of emotional connection to go along with them.
Good luck.
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2006-11-27 10:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by funnyrob01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if there aren't guys out there for you, go for other guys of a different age, perhaps older. Some men have no empathy and/or no sympathy. Men like that are not worth your time messing around with. Move on. Maybe there are better things to do then going out looking for guys who would pay attention on you. Be humble and just act yourself. Have fun with life and enjoy while you can.
2006-11-27 08:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23, so take this with a grain of salt...
but what were you expecting? a long night of romping in the hay? you can't get a guy all going and then say "sorry, gotta get home." I don't care how old the guy is... the biggest enemy of single men is BLUE BALLS and you probably gave him a terrible case that night.
might as well move on. you can't leave a man hangin' like that.
2006-11-27 08:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by bluebelly83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he was a dud. It happens...you'll find a new guy no sweat!!! Maybe you should look at guys that are all different ages. My brother is 24 going on 85 in personality. Age isn't improtant and if the guy you dated can't figure that out it's his loss.
2006-11-27 08:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's just men in general, I'm 32 and have the same problem at times! They are such commitment phobes. Although maybe there was a great connection via phone and e-mail but in person, there just wasn't.
I'm sorry, but it sounds like you deserve better!
2006-11-27 08:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was probably upset you left early, as he was expecting to get some action that night!!
Something tells me you need younger guys just to keep up w/ you!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-27 08:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 05:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,dont get discouraged,he's just insecure..I know plenty of young men who love experienced older women. If youre out for fun,there is a lot out there for you.
2006-11-27 08:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Hellonheels86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-27 08:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-27 08:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋