my boyfriend is a ***?

Question

ive been with my bf 2 years,we have 3 kids (only one he has fathered)we have our own house with and a couple of dog..perfect family mould.but he is a complete ***. he can be nice and when we get along its great and i really thik we have something good,but he has these moods that when he is in there is no etting away from it. he swears shouts and moans about everything and you try and walk away and he follows you getting worse and worse and when you dont argue back he gets meen calling me names ect all for no reason.he does it for about an hour but can linger on for a whole days ..happend about 5 ties a week,mainly when he cant get his own way or things like when his son needs feeding he storms around saying HIS food is more important than his sons.i always tell him its over then he tries for days but it necer lasts...fists have also been thrown by both of us.it gets really bad.i dont want to ed it but im at a loss...how can i stop this and how can i walk away if he just follows me

neighbouse have called the police b4 but by time they come its cooled down.he is storming around the house even now becausehe forgot to wash socks.

Answer 1

sound like he is finally resenting his life (depression?) living with 2 kids father by another and his own illegitimate son whom probably get's more care and attention than he does, the only way he knows how to deal with this is become angry which eventually leads to physical abuse, ask him straight up what is it he wants out of life and ask when he's in good and bad moods, then have him see a physiologist, he truly needs one

Answer 2

Sounds like my life a year ago. My BF acted the same way, locked himself in the bedroom for days, refused to work. I FINALLY convinced him to see a psychiatrist and he's a completely different person. Your guy sounds almost bipolar but only a doc could say for sure. I know getting a grown man to see a head doc is virtually impossible so what I did was REALLY mean it when I told him it was over. If he won't leave throw his stuff on the lawn, call the police if acts out. You need to be serious in your conviction. Let him know he either gets help or gets out. If you are anything like I was you probably feel like you are walking on egg shells, always waiting for the other shoe to drop. My bf and I talk about it now and we can't believe I stuck around, I tell him it's because he wouldn't leave when I kicked him out! I know this sounds sooooo cheesy but experience has shown me it's true. If he truly loves you he'll figure out what his problem is and stop hurting you. Living like this sucks and someday you will regret letting him get away with it for even a moment. Not to mention he's teaching his/your kids that acting like a *** is okay. Get sick and tired and take back your life!

Answer 3

Look at what you wrote....we have the "perfect family" (but he calls you names and hits you)..."he can be nice" (but he gets these moods)..."it gets really bad" (but I don't want to end it). You are a mass of contridictions, and you are deluding yourself if you think it will get better. The longer you are in the relationship, the more control he gets. He will pull you away from your support system (family and friends) until he has you right where he wants you. Take back control of your life...if not for yourself, then for the sake of your children. There has to be a women's shelter somewhere in your general area...get some help and get the heck out of there!

Answer 4

well reading the first line of your question, it seems you were made for each other.

Answer 5

i htink you should go to the police

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