I'm a bit younger, and I would like it 4-5 times a week. He doesn't seem to want it that often. Is that unusual? We are very attracted to each other, and it's fantastic when we DO, I just wondered if I MYSELF am strange for wanting it so often, or if it's strange he doesn't, or if maybe we just need to find a compromise... and if we compromise, does that mean we really aren't compatible?
2006-11-27 08:26:12 · 13 answers · asked by stillstanding 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no particular number of times a day/week/month/year that a person of ANY age "should" want it...
People want it when they want it...sex drives wax and wane during our lives for various reasons.
And no, compromise doesn't mean you aren't compatible...it means the opposite actually...it means you care enough about each other to meet in the middle when you have differences...and not say it's "this way" or "that way" or else. Shows a great amount of maturity.
DO work on finding that middle ground...talk to him about your desire frequency versus his (don't accuse, just discuss) and ask him if there are things you can do to make it more appealing for him. Perhaps there are other things currently going on in his life that cause sex to be a 'back burner' issue for him right now?
Communicate...that's a key part of any successful relationship. Good luck!
2006-11-27 08:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 40 age
2015-09-08 22:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by pradip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 55 and want it twice a day.My wife 41 wants it never.
2006-11-27 08:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how fit he is, how tired or stressed he is
if he is healthy fit and unstressed 3-5 times a wek is not excessive
talk it thru make sure he is healthy and not stressed
compromise is the art of love - no one is completely compatible!
2006-11-27 08:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that normal just try differnet stuff positions etc. groups what every you feel comfortable with. Or maybe he has to much stress in life at this time.
2006-11-27 08:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by lake living 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, we all have different sex drives.
My husband wants it every day and i like it at the weekends.
2006-11-27 08:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm 38 and i'd love to have sex 6 times a week... but i know that isn't possible... i've had days where i've managed to get it 3 times in one day - granted, with 3 different women.. :D
YOU ARE PERFECTLY NORMAL!!!
2006-11-27 08:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the only restricions on a guy having sex is sleeping, working, eating, any thing else is "free time"
2006-11-27 08:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a day and twice on Sunday.
2006-11-27 08:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think males labido falls after 33 by at least half.
2006-11-27 08:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋