2006-11-27 08:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you serious? That kind of mentality has NEVER worked out. Be yourself. I know it's a cliche but it's so true. If you wanna lose weight, do it because of you, not trying to please a man. What happens if you can't? Will he accept you then? Will you accept yourself? Will you do something drastic to lose the weight? I hope not.
2006-11-27 17:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not lose weight to win someone back. If it's not your weight, then he will find another reason for leaving and blame it on you. Leave this immature, flacky guy alone. Since you are overweight, try and lose weight because of health issues that can develop from it and do it for yourself. Anytime a relationship is based on looks, it's not a serious one and it's not going to last long. A person's physically looks can change for a number of reasons. Sometimes we can help it and sometimes we can't. But either way, is not a reason to leave someone. You can't win a person's heart based on your physical appearance.
2006-11-27 17:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me you're kidding. If he is too shallow to notice the wonderful things about you instead of your weight, believe me, you can (and will) do better.
However, if you want to lose weight, do it for you - not someone else. Ultimately, build your self esteem and self confidence and you will be more likely to attract better men anyway.
2006-11-27 16:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt listen to them. YEs get him back. he fell in love with a skinny girl, and you got fat. the only reason they say he is a slime is because they dont know you. If your man got fat and you were not attracted to him would you leave him..
LETS BE REAL HERE. NOT ALL TV FAKE.
Looks matter. You dont fall in love with someone at first sight but give me a damn break. Looks matter and if you lose them you lose who your with. I hate when people get confortable and gain weight.
ITS A DOG EAT DOG WORLD OUT THERE!!!! You were in shape to get him and you lost him becasue of your weight that is YOUR FAULT AND YOURS ALONE dont blame him!
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GOD YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME SICK! BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF! You dont look at the fat cow in the bar and say " Oh i love her." You look at the skinny blond and say " GOD SHE IS HOT"
Get over yourselfs
2006-11-27 16:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by remailer000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope.... He is obviously a shallow individual. You can do better.
2006-11-27 16:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should never change for a guy...and if thats the reason he left you, he isn't worth your time...best wishes!:)
2006-11-27 16:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a need , but don't let him hurt you again !
2006-11-27 16:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no. if he can't love you for you then well he doesn't deserve you.
2006-11-27 16:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,,,,,,,how else can he dump you again?
2006-11-27 16:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Richard E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is slime why waste your time on him
2006-11-27 16:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋