Ok. My gf and I broke up after she cheated on me. I have now been in love twice and both times was seriously hurt. I am just looking for a good girl who won't hurt someone she loves. I'm a sweet romantic guy who knows what he wants in life and thats to be happy with someone. I'm 21 from Toronto.
I guess my two questions are, is anyone interested in me? and where would be a good place to look for such a person in Toronto.
I am REALLY SHY at first and met this last gf online first and talked to her for about 5 months before actually meeting her.
2006-11-27 08:01:53 · 6 answers · asked by CJ B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well my friend, first of all:
1:DONT GET DESPERATE.
2: Think of WHY you want a girlfriend. Are you being pressured by friends or are you lonely? Do you just feel like cuddling up with someone and being loved or (dumb losers do this) you are looking for a girl to sleep with?
3: Nice, sweet girls DO NOT cheat on a sweet romantic guys. Dont go dating low life girls who may look tempting in an animal urge kind of way. These will use you and dump you in the blink of an eye. They most probably have a nasty sexually transmitted disease in them and are not worth excrement.
4: Use your energy in something else. Do exercise, get fit and look better. Do a hobby or do other productive things. Girls ARE NOT everything. Your a man and should have strong objectives in life. Women. especially in torrid romances, are a distraction and a danger if you get caught up in it all.
5: Remember point 1? Dont LOOK for women. Be yourself and that someone special WILL arrive. Trust me. I am a good looking young man and believe me: sweet, tender, loving women are not in bars, clubs or the such. YOU ARE YOUNG. I am 26 and am due to marry. I had 2 girlfriends between ages 18 and 20 (due to peer pressure) and they were both ho's. 2 years ago a met the love of my life in a hair salon and from then on it has been my bliss.
6: Be patient. Better still, let go of that urge of wanting someone in your life and go forward enjoying your male freedom in productive projects that will fullfill you as a man.
7: Get closer to God. Give that strong love to the sweet Lord Jesus. He will never disappoint you. Trust me.
2006-11-27 08:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay why do pple always look for relationships, STOP LOOKING they will find u.
you constantly get hurt because your looking for love and the person who shows intrest u jump on the wagon, im sure your a nice person, so relax and a nice respected girl will find u.
2006-11-27 16:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by will's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try church,but then again that can be a good or bad thing,depending on what you want
2006-11-27 16:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that I can suggest is just take time and heal and then look ok actually don't look because when you least expect it you'll find her.
2006-11-27 16:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You look interesting, to taste, but hey, it's all up to you
2006-11-27 16:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will come to you. dont force anything.
2006-11-27 16:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋