Think of a player you know. What about him, in detail, is attractive to women?

Question

Please don't just say "he's a badboy" or something - please be detailed, because short, one-word answers aren't helpful. Thank you! Your serious answers will get five-star best-answer.

First answer = STUPID. Don't write "I don't do it anymore" - how the hell does that help me here?!!

Answer 1

Hi, and what an interesting question! My ex-fiance is a player. We dated for almost 6 years....now, after being broken up for nearly 5 years, he is, yet again, and engaged, yet again. Here's what I noticed in his "player" personality. A lot of it had to do with how he acted and treated me when we first started dating......he made sure he let me know I was the only woman in his heart (although dropped hints that his friends were #1)...he would pay attention, only when birthdays and holidays arrived, as to what truly made me happy, so that his present and attitude would rise him to the top....he would always bring me around his friends....other women would always flirt with him and although he would flirt back, he seemed to be more interested in me and that's all that mattered...but I think the best answer to this question is not details of the man, or boy, himself, but the woman who chooses to be with him. My lack of self-confidence, insecurity and immaturity drew me closer to him because he paid attention to me and no matter what he did, how he responded to my concerns, or how he treated me, he still called me his girlfriend, still showed affection and still called me for everything he needed...so, it made me feel important when in reality, he was self-centered, greedy and cocky and never truly thought about me. I hope you find your answers! Thanks!

Answer 2

First, you should understand something very important..., players are con-artists!!! Some are very attractive, or well groomed, but most important, he gives women what they want. No, not sex or money, but understanding. Each woman he dates believes that he really understands her, and she understands him. Even if she knows that he is dating other females, she believes in her "heart of hearts", that he only "really truly" cares for her. This may seem lame, but it is the truth. It has been the truth for centuries. A lot of players are also very good (like con artists) at studying the type of women they like (their subject), they take time to learn their interests, their likes and dislikes. This sometimes takes a lot work. If you get any more answers, they will probably be negative, because, in the end, there is not real substance to a player. Regular guys are usually jealous, and women usually find out, that they really don't have a connection. This causes a lot of hostility from men and women. I hope this answers your questions. Maybe, a player will respond. However, a lot of them do not like sharing their secrets.

Answer 3

the final difficulty i like approximately gamers is their self belief!!! They smile and make eye-touch lots. they have a fashion of arising particularly everyone experience particular, from the nice and comfortable woman interior the room to her undeniable-looking pal or perhaps her 80-year-previous grandma! they are exciting and exciting. They continuously have something occurring. they convey human beings mutually and seem to understand all and sundry, which they in all probability do, on the grounds that they are solid at installation connections with human beings. wish this helps, playa!

Answer 4

Absolutely nothing! I am soooo past being remotely attracted to boys who act like players in an attempt to be men.

I prefer real men...the kind that are grown up enough to act like adults, and kiss like adults, and stay faithful like adults. I deserve the best.

Answer 5

We have all had them wanna be players that just seem to play a game with you. When you think of a player what do you see a man who act as though he was is 5? Do you see a person who plays games that shouldn't be played or a person who is just no good. When I think of a player only one thought comes to mind. In and out of jail he comes and goes playing racketball with my mind. I want you but I don't, I see you but I seem blind I hear you so much that i wish I was deaf. The thoughts of our future keep coming back like a reoccuring dream. DeJa Vu all over again. I see you like a bad episode of I love Lucy. i live the life of the story of Friday first it's Friday then Next Friday then Friday after Next everything is always the same. Yes, i want a good life but do I want to lose you trying to make it to the top Do I want the dream life without you or would I just rather live a simple life with you. Is it that I love you but tell me why I don't love myself more.
Sitting on this pedestal of love I see you with me calling me wifey material but I know you have another girl (are you saying that to her to) What is life to you is it seeinghow many girls you can get sexually and since you haven't gotten me you just want to lead me on until I do. Will you leave me after it over. Will I be so naiive that I still stay around have your 3 kids and become just your baby mama or will things change. The things you say always don't seem to add up correctly. I going to college (good can't have no dumb man) but I gonna just play around for two years or until they kick me out (STUPID) I want the sweet life for us and you tell me things will always be the same but it's clear you will always remain the same UNTIL THE END OF TIME. LOVE STRICKEN ME

Answer 6

My neighbor is an all time great player of women
The women I have seen him with
He is so into him self, so arrogant and down right dis respectful towards his women.
Yells, pushes and tells them he is king of kings and they are his
servants.
He goes through women like crows eat corn.
And he doesn't keep women for long..

Answer 7

What is attractive about the person I know is his charm, personal appearance and his personality. He deceives women by pretending to be very interested in what they have to say and in their lives and before you know it, he takes advantage of them by asking for money and never paying it back. In my opinion, the old saying "looks can be deceiving" is true for this guy I know.