Simply offer a "getting to know you" date. This gives you a chance to get to know each other better on a one on one environment and for her to see what you are like when know one else is looking. Ask it with a calm, but festive voice, as if you are inviting her to a party. If she is even the slightest bit interested, she will go on this date with you. If she rejects it, then sorry no luck. If she rejects it but offers to reschedule then u still have a chance. Remember this is a getting to know you date, meaning do not get emotional and only get physical when you are 100% sure now is the time. You can sense this when you guage her mood. Make sure this event is fun. You want her to see you as a fun guy. think outside the movie and dinner box and go more like ice skating or some other thing. You aren't going out yet, just show her a simple summary of you. This adds to the mystery of your persona, it will draw her in because of curiosity. Keep it fun and end the date with a kiss on the cheek. With the slightest bit of luck, you and her will be one step closer to being a couple. Good Luck.
Oh and try not to listen to any of the girls who posted before me. trust me, telling her how you feel rarely works, unless you are almost 100% sure she likes you. It sounds sweet and all, but it hardly works. Save that Love confession stuff for movies. Just gotta show her what you have to offer, so that she will at least keep you in her mind as a potential boyfriend. try the Getting to Know You date. you have nothing to lose. With the love confession, you are gambling with the odds against you. Good Luck.
2006-11-27 08:07:20
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answered by Kevin L 3
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Best way to ask a woman out is to follow these simple tips.
A. Approach her in an area where you feel comfortable: Having the home court advantage always improves your odds.
B. Try not to approach her while she is with her friends, family or associates ... if that’s not possible bring a wing man to run interference. (The old divide and conquer).
C. Preparation: Before the approach make sure you are looking your best. Make sure your breathe is fresh. Lotion your hands and manicure your nails. A woman likes a well groomed man and don’t forget to put some chapstick on those lips. You might want to do a few push ups before you leave the house so that you arms and chest muscles are tight.
D. Always make contact and maintain contact. Start with the intro and a hand shake. I love to start with physical contact. It allows me into their personal space. Make eye contact. People automatically feel distrustful of people that don’t look them in the eye. Also looking a person in the eye has a dominant quality.
C. Don’t over power the conversation: Keep her attention by asking questions about her. If you have a few things in common then feel free to elaborate but don’t make it about you.
D. Get a number. Always seal the deal by getting the digits. That is the whole point of the approach. Remember, “A closed mouth doesn’t get fed” as my grandma would say. So ask for what you want. A woman likes a go getter.
E. Above all else be honest. Don’t lie or embellish because that’s just to much to remember. Any woman with half a brain will figure out that you have been misleading her.
Try this it works for me.
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2006-11-27 16:55:40
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answered by orpheus 1
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You should do it, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Somebody might come up, steal her heart, then whisk her away, leaving you in the dust. That would suck. So do it, and if she says yes, then yay! If not, then you shouldn't think too hard about it, move one, and try somebody else. I'm sure there's someone out there for you.
2006-11-27 16:01:33
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answered by Lily 2
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just go for it
and be sweet dont hesitate too much but just be yourself and tell her how you fell
and if it doesnt work out at least you tried and theyre are plenty of fish in the sea
2006-11-27 16:01:17
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answered by [trapped][in][a][box] 3
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become friends with her adn if ur not ready for her to really know juist tell he jokingly, and ask her to hang out with some friends then once you get to know her you can ask her out and it won't be as wierd.
2006-11-27 16:01:11
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answered by christy 2
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um you need to talk to her more.. i mean do u talk to her lots? becasue if you dont..then u need to then she will just use the
well id ont kno you good enough line
and it will never happen
ive done it
serious
if yall arent [[ talking ]]
get to [[ talking ]] first
then u can tell if she likes u
and that makes it easier
2006-11-27 16:01:02
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answered by toxic 2
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