There's this girl that I've liked for the past eight months and I don't know what to do with her. I asked her out on a date and I told her that I liked her but she basically told me that there is too much of an age difference (I'm 19, she's 22) and we're at two different points in our lives and it wouldn't work out. I got the idea that she didn't like me like that and so I pretty much gave up. Yesterday, however, a friend of hers told me that she's liked me for a long time and she still does, but she's pretty guarded about her feelings. I still like her a lot and I really hope it does turn into something. What should I do about this. Should I pursue her at all?
2006-11-27 07:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the smart approach with her. If she truly does like you, try asking her to go get a cup of coffee - as friends. Get to know her by asking a lot of questions about her life - be sincere and pay attention. See what is making this girl tick and whether you're still interested in her. What I believe woman truly look for is somebody interested in thier life - not just thier body. Once you obtain the trust, the body follows. So be patient and get to know her.
2006-11-27 07:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey-- She might think that having coffee or hangin' outside of the classroom would be awkward. The classroom environment is a comfort zone and maybe she's not ready to move outside the comfort zone yet. it doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it just means that maybe she's not comfortable yet. i'm a woman so that's why i would say no. She sounds really great and if she approached you first, i don't think she'd be playing hard to get. so what i said above is probably it. Good luck :)
2016-05-23 14:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the girl's friend was instructed to tell you that she is still holding a candle for you. I think she wants you to persue, and so let her friend know so that you would know. I know, it's a strange mixed up game, but go for it. The information that was passed to you was not done in total secrecy. You can bet that the girl knew the friend would tell you.
2006-11-27 07:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate ot say it but it sounds like she wants you until she finds something better like stringing you along. there are alot of great women out there. move on son and be happy with the one that is right for you--good luck---finding the one that you compliment is tough and i'm still looking at 51. hope you don't have to wait that long
2006-11-27 07:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by CHOPPER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a couple more times. the girl im trying to date and see is kind of the same way, she rarly replies to my e-mails, says she likes me but doesnt act like it.
they may be playing hard to get, to see how hard we try.
2006-11-27 07:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a few other women just don't have one, play one against the other
2006-11-27 07:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her... She seems to have issues... Let her stew... If she is truly interested in you, she'll come a-running... ;)
2006-11-27 07:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take her out
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2006-11-27 07:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋