Like myself I'm not that very well liked by any girls and feel that i nee some advice that would help me.
2006-11-27 07:47:09 · 24 answers · asked by Samuel Asulfat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess there could be any number of factors. Confidence is important. If you are lacking in that department, then there are ways you can build up your confidence. It's not easy though. Trust me, I know. Make sure it's not some physical problem, like BO or excessive body hair or bad breath. Those things are easy to resolve. Yes, never underestimate the importance of hygiene. Also, you might want to try doing something different with your hair (get a second opinion) or kick your wardrobe up a notch (best way is to go shopping with a trusted female).
Consider, also, what kind of girls you are attracted to. Are they the same ones that ALL the guys are after?
2006-11-27 08:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by cyanide_kisses81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a chance of getting a girl... Just dont rush it... It will happen, but your not thinking it's going to happen cause your rushing it and loosing hope... Just take it easy and live your life day by day. Hang, out with friends, go out have fun, and one day that girl will just come to you! But, you have to be patient. Girl's are going to come running to you if you seem desperate...
Best of luck to you!!!
2006-11-27 07:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it. There is someone for everyone. You might find that you will be better-liked and more-desired by the girls if you just live your life and don't chase after them.
2006-11-27 07:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you probably in a low mood and will have better perspective later. Dating is very competitive. Dr. Phil is good resource for perspective.
2006-11-27 07:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Walter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno really, but i would suggest getting good at a sport such as bball or baseball or sumthing.... then gettin nice clothing, none of those stupid shirts with logos in giant print and wat not tats just out of style... then try gettin ur hair done nicely... dont ever act as though ur totally cool but still chill sum wat with the in crowd, u dont have to be freinds with em... be kind to the girl but dont be obvious... work out and wear shirts and clothing that shows muscles... get good grades i guess intelligence will help somehow... and tats all i can think of.. wait if u have glasses get contacts.. clear all zits... and use deoderant dont be smelly... get good smellin deoderant like ax or old spice... dont get any crud like ones
2006-11-27 07:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself and decide what it is that you feel makes you unattractive. Do something about it.
If you have any female friends who would be honest with you, talk to them about it.
No one is a lost cause.
2006-11-27 07:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is stupid. Any guy or girl can get somebody. It might not be the person you want, but there is somebody out there for everybody.
Just don't try to reach for the stars.
2006-11-27 07:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
-Smile all the time
-Have girls as friends first
-Be yourself
-Don't try any pickup lines...so stupid!
-Care about your appearance (not obsessively though)
-Don't swear so much
-Be polite to girls (hold open doors, etc..)
And you never know...some girl just may have a secret crush on you or something!
2006-11-27 07:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
read double your dating by david deangelo......it's basic and straightforward......I haven't met the guy that didn't have at least 3 dates withing 2 weeks after reading it.....
you will realize that you are more attractive to the opposite sex than you think.....
2006-11-27 07:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by giovanni g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say taht is totally silly
theres no way that you have no chance
everyone has a chance with someone
have some confidence
2006-11-27 07:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋