2006-11-27 07:37:58 · 36 answers · asked by niceholenichole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. No explanation needed here.
2006-11-27 07:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... do you want to hear fairy tales or the plain truth?
I will tell you the truth: he's playing you like a puppet. You can't stop him from going anywhere with his ex. Let's pretend he's really going to a concert. Why weren't you invited to go the 3 of you? If he didn't have bad intentions, he would have FIRST invited you then if it had been OK with you, then maybe suggest inviting her. Do you see the bad intention in there? Hey, maybe you can plan a night out with some friends. Don't try to retaliate. Either you accept him the way he is or you get out of this relationship. This is not looking too prominent. His ex has more priority in his life than you. This is not right at all. I think you deserve to be treated much better than that.
2006-11-27 08:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. How would he feel if you went to a concert with yours? How long have they had this planned and when did you come into the picture though? 'Cause if they've had this planned for months and you've only been together for weeks, then it's a little more understandable. Please communicate your concern with him though. Don't let him think it's okay to go, then bash him for it later. That's not fair. Also, how deep was their relationship? Is she is ex wife, ex long term girlfriend or short term? All of those kind of make a difference. If she's an ex short term girlfriend, you might as well consider yourself part of his dating game and not trip about it 'cause he's just exploring his options. If she's an ex long term girlfriend, watch out. That's not good 'cause I'm sure the emotional connection is still there and that could spell trouble. If she's an ex wife, really watch out. And, finally, never get mad at the woman! It's not her fault YOUR boyfriend is still wanting to go with her. It's not HER job to be concerned about you, it's his. Thanks! :o)
2006-11-27 08:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah you should be pissed off. See, a lot of guys I know try to rationalize these kinds of things by saying "We're just friends now" even though they have a current girlfriend. Thats not the freakin' point! You have every right to be mad about this. He had a relationship with this girl in the past, they were together emotionally and probably physically. Why would you want your man to be with her alone? He is being completely inconsiderate of how you feel about this. You need to let him know exactly what it is you think about this situation. Obviously you are upset or you wouldn't have asked the question. You deserve his respect more than his ex does b/c you are the one with him now. Thats what should matter to him.
2006-11-27 07:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why aren't you going along with them? you didn't give enough detail...however if he jumped up one day out the blue and told you he was going to a concert with his ex without inviting you....then yeah you have every right to be pissed off. you shouldn't take that kinda trash off men like that b/c he will lose all respect for you and do that to you all the time, so if he's disrespecting you like that then i suggest you talk to him and put him in his place real fast.
2006-11-27 07:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you expressed your how upset you are regarding this situation? If you haven't he probably doesn't think it bothers you. Let him know it bothers you and that you feel uncomfortable with him going to a concert with an ex. If he ignores your feelings and does it again you may want to find someone else who respects you. Don't put yourself or your feelings last for a boy.
2006-11-27 07:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, I would be. Why would he even want to go to a concert with his ex? On the other hand, I guess it depends on the relationship they had when they were together. Was it a good one or do you even know? Do you trust him? I trust my bf, but it would bother me if he was going to a concert with his ex gf!!! Hmmm, good question.
2006-11-27 07:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems fishy. Follow them. They might be having an affair. Follow them into the concert to see. But make sure you are not seen. Why would you even let him go?
2006-11-27 07:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you should get mad...... Reason cause if you were to do it he would be upset with you and be ready to dump you!!. That is a double standard and you should not have to put up with it. You deserve better!! There is a reason why she's an EX!! A better question is why isn't he taking YOU!!
2006-11-27 07:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by nik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL UR SCREWED. tell him that your going out with your ex to the closest theme park there instead of sitting at home when hes at the concert. see how he reacts.
2006-11-27 07:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by aligrespeq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. An ex stays in the past and that's that. Depending on his explanation you could alter your thought on this but I wouldn't like it one bit.
2006-11-27 07:40:47 · answer #11 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋