If she buys me a gift every year should I feel obligated to buy her a gift every year?? It's usually something under $50. I have bought a gift every year but I do not really feel like it this year (limited funds). Thanks.
2006-11-27 07:32:57 · 22 answers · asked by Penguin Gal 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I don't think giving a boss a gift is necessary, but you have established a pattern of doing so, and I would not end the tradition without having a discussion with the boss ahead of time. A gift doesn't have to be costly, just thoughtful. Maybe something you made yourself or baked goods. How about a pound of really good coffee and a new mug? And what does your boss like to do when not working? Any hobby opens up a world of gift ideas you know she would love.
2006-11-27 07:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there's no way to let her know gracefully that you can't afford to get her a present. It's tacky and makes you look presumptuous. As a college student, I understand what you're going through. Lots of people to buy for, but unsufficient funds. I usually make fudge and make enough to be able to give to lots of people. It's actually quite cheap and you can give it to someone like a boss or co-workers and even keep some extra around just in case you get a present from someone and weren't planning on reciprocating.
You could also melt down some milk chocolate chips over a double boiler, dip pretzels rods into it and roll them in Christmas jimmies. Package them in holiday baggies (the nice kind, not ziplocks- try a craft store) and tie with a pretty ribbon.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 09:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember, it's not how much you pay, but the thought that counts. Believe it or not, you can find beautiful gifts for $10 if you really try.
Why not get her an ornament for her tree. Something that looks glittery and expensive, but is not costly. Then maybe take it to a one of those places at a mall that writes the names on them and have it personalized. You can do the same with a scarf for winter. Scarfs are cheap when you head to Walmart or Kmart and they have a vast selection and most times run under $10. Then if you know anyone who sews, have them embroider her initials on them.
Or...another idea is to have someone at work take a group photo of the associates, then have it put onto a mug she can use for her beverage at work. That's pretty inexpensive to do.
There are all kinds of inexpensive ideas for nice gifts. Try going on the website for HGTV. They have great creative gift ideas.
That's just a couple of notions. I understand the no $$. I'm in that situation myself.
2006-11-27 07:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by chole_24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not obligated to do so if she feels the need to buy you a gift then she can, however let her know your plans for this year and maybe you can do something like make her cookies give her a nice personalized Christmas card and so on hope it works out merry Christmas!
2006-11-27 07:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by LesHug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't "hint" about your funds per someone elses answer. She may take it as your way of complaining about your salary. I'd just do your best with what you can afford and try to figure out a thoughtful gift. Most of the time those are better then expensive gifts anyway. Figure out her favorite fragrance, or if she really likes dipping oils and bread you could make up a nice gift basket with homemade breads..etc.
2006-11-27 07:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by baby1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My solution to the holiday office delima is baking! If I were to buy presents for all of our people I would be broke. So what I do is buy the Pilsbury quick bread, and substitute apple sauce for oil(healthier and makes it taste more homemade) Then you wrap it in colored saran wrap and tie it with raffia. And to make it a little more special I go to the dollor store and buy like the little wooden ornaments and tie them on too. They are always a big hit, and only an afternoons worth or work.
2006-11-27 07:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by auequine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not feel obligated to buy her/him a gift. Their gift to you is in appreciation of you as an employee. However, if it makes you feel uncomfortable not offering a gift to your employer, a "cheap" gift ( and good too! ) is to get a boxed Cranberry Bread mix, add walnuts and a bit of Orange flavoring.........wrap it pretty...and it's a wonderful gift!
2006-11-27 07:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by TW117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never obligated to buy anyone...anything. It appears you were only buying for her because she bought for you and you felt obligated. That is not a good reason to buy someone a gift.
Bake her some cookies and give her a card. That is enough.
2006-11-27 07:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a comment how you are doing financial wise this year that way she will at least know. Perhaps you can give her a Christmas card or make something for her to keep at her desk. There are a lot of inexpensive and creative ways to wish someone in the corporate world a Merry Christmas.
2006-11-27 07:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope. never feel obligated. i am sure she makes more money than you and do not get yourself in any type of hardships just to please someone. i have learned that through personal experience. give her a nice card, and if she gives you a gift reciprocate with a new years card with a personal thank you note for the gift.
2006-11-27 07:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋