2006-11-27 07:32:07 · 14 answers · asked by gustavos girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am in this position myself right at the moment. My bf and I have been together now 4 yrs and I am in one part of the world while he is in another state. Its hard trust me, but you have to have faith and you have to believe in the relationship if you intend for it to work. You also have to find out if you will end up being together in the end. If you sit around and ponder the idea that they are out cheating it will drive you insane. I know from personal expeirence. It goes both ways though; you may be the one questioning but the other may be doing the same thing. Just ask yourself if you can handle the situation for what it is and if so then relax and enjoy the emails, phone calls, etc. and go forward. If not, then moving on is sometimes hard but its also harder to question someones trust and can cause them to be bitter. If someone is going to betray you they dont have to be a million miles away, they can do it right there at home just the same. Goodluck and if you ever wanna talk email me.
2006-11-27 07:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mariachi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can trust someone you love so far was is for the respect you have for them. If, they show you the respect and talk to you a great deal, and tell you how they feel about you, and show that they love and care and respect you back, then that's how you can trust someone so far away that you love. But, you can't have trust if you don't have the respect!!!
Best of luck to you!!!
2006-11-27 07:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything takes time... trust does not happen overnight... since you didn't indicate how long you've been together it is hard to give an accurate answer... I have been married for over 18 yrs and my husband is now in Iraq serving our country... he IM's me everyday and tells me how much he loves and misses me...We have had years to build our love and trust in one another.
2006-11-27 07:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard thing to do.My husband works away 6 out of 12 months. It is hard to have them away fom you but if you love them and know in your heart they wouldn't do anything then trust them.
2006-11-27 09:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is lives far away from me and what helped me to trust him is just loving him with all of my heart and have an open mind that he won't do anything behind your back.
2006-11-27 07:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and trust go hand in hand. It is pretty hard to have one without the other.
2006-11-27 07:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a really hard thing to do, its all about faith and believing in that person 100 percent. you just have to belive in that person, and know that they are not doing anything bad. or maybe talk to them about how you feel, so that they can reassure you.
2006-11-27 07:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by surfer2thextreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
far away relationships are not for every one, you just trust !! thats really a good proove,you jus need to be sure what you want and never let other make you feel weak about it just be sure what you want
2006-11-27 07:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u really cant trust someone so far away cause if u did they proble will not trust u
2006-11-27 07:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You love them, you make a leap-of-faith.. you trust them.. at least that's the theory..
2006-11-27 07:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by InnerSymbiance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋