I love this girl. I've known her for 5 months and I know that she loves me, but I know I'm not good enough for her so I just want us to be friends......
2006-11-27 07:32:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, the reason why I said I'm not good enough for her is cuz her friends really hate me, they say I should just leave them alone and go find someone else. But she really loves me. But she said if I die, then she dies too. lol. that's how much she loves me.
2006-11-27 07:51:07 · update #1
Why do u think that u are not good enough for her? If, she felt that way she would tell u, or is it u that wants to break up with her? If, she is not giving u any indication that she is not interested, stop dwelling on it so much. You must mean something to her, if she has not said anything to u. You sound like u are a little insecure about your looks. Don't be!!! She loves U!! For who u are. Don't sell yourself short. Good Luck!!
2006-11-27 07:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by squeaky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? If the two of you love each other then leave well enough alone. Perhaps you should take a closer look at your self and start to realize just how special you really are. If she loves you then she obviously sees your self worth. Look into some form of counseling start appreciating yourself and all of your positive attributes.
2006-11-27 15:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by lissam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her shouldn't you be trying to become the person that she needs. Is is that you don't want to change? Well if you decide not to try to be a better person then explain to her why you want to break up. Make it clear that you are not interested in someone else so that she has no suspicions. Let her know that you are still willing to be friends.
2006-11-27 15:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Aspire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. You should tell her how you feel. Love is a choice. you have to choose to earn the love, and so does she. If you are both willing to do so then i think it would be fine for you two to stay together unless you two need some space for school or something. Either way, you should talk this over with her.
Best of luck,
your friend
~Youngling (Radio!)
tell her what her friends said to you and work it out =)
2006-11-27 15:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Youngling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? Are you fricking serious? So, if Ed McMahon knocks on your door tomorrow and tells you that you just won $10 million, are you going to say, sorry Ed, but I just don't deserve that kind of money? Of course not, buttmunch! Same thing here. You won the lottery. Enjoy it, have fun, see where it leads. If you throw away a winning ticket, you may never find another one.
2006-11-27 15:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "not good enough" for her? How did you come to this conclusion?
Is she from a rich family? A cheerleader? What?
So don't break up with her just because you have some pre-conceived notion that you don't measure up to her. If for some reason you don't, she'll let you know!
2006-11-27 15:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Tell her you want to be friends but y are you not good euough for her and one is the same in some way so good luck
2006-11-27 15:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you're not good enough for her, why don't you let her decide that and also why arent u good enough for her??? if u love her u would do anything to be better at it???somthing is not righttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt u are not telling the hole storyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
2006-11-27 15:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweet84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not good enough for her; she'll let you know. And as far as her friends.. well, just ignore them! It's as simple as that! If you really, truly love her that much you wouldn't let her go that easily. :]
2006-11-27 16:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by dayoldporridge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please...if you love her so much...improve yourself so that you are good enough for her. If you want to dump her...just be honest...and stop with the "I'm not good enough" crap. No one buys that anyway! If friendship is what you want...then tell her that. Any relationship starts with honesty....so....be honest.
2006-11-27 15:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋