Last christmas , i met this boy who i fell in love with instantly.I hadnt believed in love at first sight before i met him.We were both really shy though,and didn't get talking until nearly four months after it, although we wold always just stare into eachother's eyes.When we finally got talking,we sat up talking until the early hours, but i had a boyfriend.We became friends,but we hardly talk as much now because...he's fine talking to just me...but when my boyfriend is there he just walks off.I love my boyfriend to bits, he's amazing.But today i suggested 'that boy' had a problem coz he kept walking off every time we walked over.So my bf shouts 'Oi,have you got a problem with us?' and he was like no,why?and my bf pointed at me and said 'coz she thinks you do' and the boy looked at me as if to say wtf?I am a bit upset by it,and i feel like i need to apologise to him but what can i say?Plus obviously my bf doesnt have a clue about us.Dont get me wrong i love my bf but that hurt me.
2006-11-27 07:15:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what can you say when you have to answer to children?
2006-11-27 07:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you need some harsh truth. First you need to learn how to keep your shizz on the DL (down low). I say that because you need to shut your mouth. You got a dude that is into you and you gots a man and you wonder why he walks off when you guys show up. He is doing that for two reasons. 1 he is into you, and 2 he is trying to keep it on the DL cause I guarantee you if you guys do that looking at each other lovingly in front of your man the gig is up. Now back to you. If you love your bf so much you wouldn't be doing what you are doing at this very moment. Love at first sight...lol....woman if you don't stop lying to yourself about love you gonna burst into flames. Maybe you do love both of them but lets face it you can't have both so decide and leave one of them alone. I don't understand if a guy does this he is labeled a dog. Why should it be any different when a woman does it? Stop playing with this guy's heart and be with your boyfriend. If he was so great maybe you wouldn't be talking to some guy into the early hours. Think about that.
2006-11-27 15:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a terrible situation. Well first off I don't think you should have brought that to your bf attention. You don't ever bring unwanted attention to the other person, even if you all are just friends, misunderstandings cause problems and confustion, that is not needed. There is no need to explain to dude, because you are not obligated to ole boy, however you can let your man know that his actions were quite embarrassing.
2006-11-27 15:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Momma of 4mth old Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is no fool.
He knows that the guy is looking right through him to see you.
He gets the vibes...
He probably felt he was being protective.
Talk with him and let him know you can handle your own friends.
Make sure he understands where he stands. Tell him soon.
And if you really care, tell him the truth.
You can tell your friend that you are sorry about what your boyfriend said, but it's your boyfriend. And it is staying that way.
You two had your chance and now your with someone else.
If he cares about you,even if just as a friend, he won't interfer.
2006-11-27 15:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The guy" is probably avoiding the situation because he's a little jealous of your boyfriend and maybe doesn't want to get you into trouble. I think you need to just walk up and tell him you're sorry. Then you need to find out how this other guy feels about you and make a decision between the two.
2006-11-27 15:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nickey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer that extending your non relationship relationships to all night chats with members of the opposite sex only takes away from your relationship with your man. You obviously have feeling for both guys, but it is not fair to play both at one time, everyone will lose.
Make a decision and stick to it.
2006-11-27 15:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Laura B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be mad at your bf because he was just trying to help but first of all you can only pick one guy....its not fair to your bf. If you need something to say to the other boy, just be like "sorry about that, my bf didnt know that we were friends." then you need to ask him if he has a problem with you and your bf. if he asks why, just be like " i dunno its just that whenever we come near you, you walk away." ^_^ good luck and I hope I helped!
2006-11-27 15:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by ilovemcr214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you mad at your boyfriend for? I don't get it. Then again, I don't believe in exclusive dating until things start to get serious. If you're going to be exclusive, why are you flirting with this other guy? Why are you mad at your boyfriend for stopping you from flirting with another guy? That's what being exclusive means. Either go non-exclusive, or stop flirting with other guys. Simple as that.
2006-11-27 16:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to the fellow and then get rid of your "boyfriend"
Tell the boy you love madly you are available
2006-11-27 15:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf did the right thing with aproching your friend to his face, and your friend needs to suck it up and talk to you even if he doesnt like your bf.
2006-11-27 15:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u decide: do u want mystery man or ur bf?????
follow ur heart
2006-11-27 15:18:54 · answer #11 · answered by kYM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋