Why do guys constantly stare at my boobs when they're talking to me?

Question

I know that they know that they're doing it, what is it like a magnetic force field or something? Isn't one look enough? What are they waiting for?

p.s.-it's like an insult, and yes, then you think they really aren't interested in you at all.

Answer 1

Guys are visual creatures. Each set is a magical mystery. It's a fantasy to think of what is under there. Can't change it, so you might as well take it as a compliment. I would be a lot worse if they weren't looking. Relax & Enjoy!

Answer 2

They're guys, and you have breasts -- they're going to look.

I love the "What are they waiting for?" question, though. I wonder whether you could rig something in your shirt, like the mini-alien that pops out of John Hurt's chest in the movie "Alien." THAT would give them nightmares!

Or you could wear a button that says "Look up, nitwit." Or a rose that squirts. But I love the alien-bursting-from-your-cleavage idea.

Answer 3

Men are innately very visually oriented. God designed us that way. We can derive a certain amount of sexual pleasure from merely looking at a lovely woman. That is why women in the bible were reminded to dress modestly and also why Jesus said that if we look at a woman with lust we have already committed adultery in our hearts. If a guy is spending too much time looking at your breasts, it is because he is allowing his mind to wander in inappropriate ways (unless he's your husband). Also, in our society where porn and sexual imagery is so common our drives are often supercharged and it takes a lot of work to not look at a lovely woman in ways that are inappropriate. (That does not excuse the guys who do it, however.)

My best advise is to check the way you are dressing. If you are exposing very much of your breasts, it will attract the attention of almost every guy unless he is really working hard to remain pure and even these will definitely notice.

Answer 4

Yeah it is like a magnetic force field.... guys only think of one thing. well technically 3 things....

It's when they stop looking you have to worry...

Answer 5

Ahhh....errr.....ummmm.....
What were you saying?

By the way, it's because we are guys, and we like boobs. Period. If it is a problem try to cover them up - I can't stand girls who have their cleavage hanging way out and then complain everyone is staring.
If my d*** was hanging out I PROMISE your eyes would keep going back to it no matter how hard to tried not to look.

Answer 6

No. You're talking to semi-austistic people, who aren't looking at your boobs, they're looking away from your eyes.

Answer 7

maybe it's because they're really big. but if you catch a guy that keeps looking down, then he is too selfish and not interested in you.

Answer 8

Are they big? That could be a reason! You showing alot of Cleaveage? That could be a reason! Are you a hottie? That could be a reason! Are you flirty? That could be a reason! we need a little more info to help you out there, but if you answer "yes" to one of those questions, than there's your answer :)

Answer 9

lol... its our natural facination since child hood... and besides.. if you dont like it why wear clothes that reveal.. you ahve two weapons of mass destruction :D there... and use them wisely... too much not good.. but right amount for right guy means.. you will knock thier socks off... enjoy..

Answer 10

I have this happen to me alot. So I wear shirts with clever sayings like "look up! im talking to you with my mouth" crap like that. it really makes them embarresed. Or just point it out. its rude and uncalled for. they will stop if you notice they're doing it.