My bf and i have been dating for almost 7 months, and everything is goin well, except for his mom! she is so weird and mean: one incident, i was at their house and i had nothing to eat so i started to get a migraine, my bf asked his mom if he could cook for me and she said no bcuz they didn't have enough food-an hour later she makes 2 huge baskets of fried chicken and doesn't offer me any! but overall, she doesn't speak to me, but her opinion of me is that i'm "bold" bcuz me and my bf joke around and i dont hold back on what i say..wtf?
i've done a couple of favors for her, but she still has an f'd up opinion of me. and she's hella dependent on my bf, and it's hella annoying. when we're together, she calls him to ask how to spell a word or something, and then she starts a full convo knowin he's with me..this mess is hella annoying and i'm getting tired of her feeding him ideas about me and holdin him on a leash...
2006-11-27 07:02:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you have tried to be civil with her, the rest is in her hands. your not with his mom, your with him and as long as his opinion doesnt change about you bcuz of her,just let try to let it go let her be the evil woman that she chooses to be.
2006-11-28 10:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like the total family contributors is a few bricks shy of an complete load. advise on your boyfriend that he seek for suggestion from an individual he trusts to get help with the placement, and/or that he get counseling himself. This rather isn't your issue in any respect, except inasmuch because it impacts your boyfriend's habit. appears like his issue-fixing skills at the instantaneous are not very stepped forward if he thinks he ought to kill himself in preference to see his mom hurting others. i'm guessing alcohol is in contact quicker or later, or perhaps many ranges, as this appears like alcoholic habit. there is not something you may do to console him or make him experience extra powerful, considering this isn't an indicator second. it truly is rather intense stuff and under no circumstances something you may help.
2016-11-27 02:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by barela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's clearly jealous and possessive and mean. Mothers often don't want to let their little boys go.
The only advice I can give you is something that came from my Dad: when you date someone, you date their entire family. That your boyfriend tolerates her behaviour should be a red flag warning you how your life will be if you stay with him. He will always give way to Mommy, and he doesn't mind being on her leash.
2006-11-27 07:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most in-laws are a little strange.
The next time the new, and unimproved "Wicked Witch
of the Outhouse" makes mashed potatoes, bring over a
diseased yac, and let it have an accident on the
mashed potatoes !
That even makes me feel better !
2006-11-27 07:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Frank N. S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to go about this is to actually talk to her about it
i know it might be hard but it can be the only way to deal with it
complaining to your bf or asking him to make her stop will make you seem childish and irresponsible
sit down with her when your bf isnt there and ask her nicely why it seems like she doesnt like you
maybe once you have it all out in the open and she sees that you were mature enough to handle the problem maturely and responsibly she will come aroud
good luck
:)
2006-11-27 07:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probaly thinks that you are taking her son away from her. Mothers can get jealous too. If you really like your boyfriend then he is the one who you will need to talk to so he can put his foot down to HIS mother, key word sweety thats his mother. (Thank God). But try to act like the stuff she does doesn't bother because I think she just wants you to be out of the picture,
2006-11-27 07:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to be going through this the rest of your life with him. The mothers always feel like they are being robbed of their son, if they dont approve of you. The same thing is happening to me and my bfs mom
2006-11-27 07:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of mothers like that, mommas boys are the hardest to deal with. will your man stand up to her and tell her that your more important than him? If not, then you are leading down a long painful road.
2006-11-27 07:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by harpseal1998 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous you are taking him away. Be careful on continuing the relationship if she is around.
2006-11-27 07:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i dated some one like that once dose he like his mom? you really need to talk to him about it and then have him talk to his mom or you can be a su
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