well i have a friend, who told me , that this girl told her that she likes me, and other of my friend told me the same thing, but then i call the girl but she says that she likes me like a friend, does she really like me?
2006-11-27 06:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope... Your friends are just messing with you... Or she's jerking you around... Either way, it's bad news...
2006-11-27 07:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends may well be messing with you, or she may be playing hard to get. You need to test out her feelings with her if you want to know the truth.
Your best bet is to spend some time with her in a social situation and look for clues as to her true feelings. Watch body language - does she touch you or on the leg or arm? Does she lean in to talk to you? Does she seem happy to see you? Does she look you in the eyes then sheepishly look away when you meet her gaze? If she is doing these things she is probably interested. If on the other hand she doesn't want to talk to you, doesn't touch you, constantly looks away or disinterested while talking to you then she probably isn't interested.
You have violated a general rule in courting - asking a girl directly if she likes you before first knowing the answer yourself. By doing this you place her on the spot - maybe she likes you but isn't sure yet, or maybe she is sure but is embarrassed to admit it. Maybe she hasn't made up her mind. For future reference avoid asking girls directly if they like you - it generally will hurt your chances. Instead show confidence, make her laugh, pay attention to her but don't bend over backwards for her, be yourself and don't be afraid to disagree with her and tease her playfully. Women generally want a man who isn't afraid to have his own opinion and to respectfully disagree with her.
2006-11-27 07:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sean D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just likes you like a friend
2006-11-27 07:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does but is embarrased now
give it time and just flirt and let things come naturally
you shouldn't have called her up and said
hey I heard you like me.
How would you respond.
Good luck
2006-11-27 07:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well nobody here can guess her right now! but man give it some time, dont call her very often, let her miss you, & if she doesn't like you at all that way, theres nothing you can do.. take my advice
NEVER RUN AFTER A GIRL OR A BUS
IF ONE IS MISSED ANOTHER COMES SOON!!!!! ;-)
2006-11-27 07:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by tantra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but just friendsfor now maybe later on down theroad she will want more
2006-11-27 07:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just friends
2006-11-27 07:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋