My x-boyfriend calls me and sends me messages and he always want me to answer back and talk to him dose this m

Question

But the thing is that I have my boyfriend and he knows and I told him that I really y love my boyfriend and that I would never do anything to hurt him. I don’t know what to i do cuz he dose not understand that he is just my friend and that I don’t love him

Answer 1

Sounds like he'll keep doing it until you stop taking his calls and accepting his messages. If you want him to back off, you need to NOT respond to him. It's just that easy.

Answer 2

Well, you said he told you he was divorced then you say that he needs a divorce later on. So he already lied to you again. Unless you are lying to us? Or confused. So anyway, you claim he is such a gentleman. Yah right. You are delusional. Then man cheats on his wife, lies, etc. but he is so great. Please. The things he told you in a quest to get you were the same things he once told his wife. And he made a commitment to her for life. But instead he tires of her (oh, of course it's all her fault, they all say that) and moves on to you. He can't tell you that he is a loser who is cheating on his wife and that he is the cause of the marital problems. That won't get you in bed. Instead he lies. That is what cheaters do. And you romanticize this relationship like he is your white knight. Not hardly. He is a lying, cheating dog. For you to expect him to ever be truthful with you is like expecting a dog to chirp like a bird. Never gonna happen. He knows you will buy his bs. And drop the drawers. So what else would he do but lie? It obviously works. Even when he gets caught you still hang around. So he knows he can do anything he wants and you will be there to be walked on. You can give him an ultimatim all you want, you already have a history of letting him slide with his lies. Or you wouldn't be laying yourself out there to be his doormat. You need to get some therapy to find out why you expect so little from your partner in a relationship. My guess: self esteem and image issues. And get involved in a church or volunteer. Maybe then you might meet a nice guy. A real gentleman. Not some loser pretending to be something he is obviously not.

Answer 3

it sounds to me that your ex is still holding a candle for you,u should let him know that u dont have any feelings for him and if he still persists in contacting u that u will get a non-molestion order from the police that prevents him from phoneing,calling to yr home,stopping u on the street,and having any sort of contact with u either directly or indirectly,these orders are easily obtained just call your local police station for advise and they will be more than happy to explain the situation,he is basicially stalking you so i would advise getting that order out against this pathetic waster... GOOD LUCK....

Answer 4

He's maybe just finding the breakup difficult to accept and doesnt want to cut you out of his life totally. But, its best if you dont answer his txt and
calls as he'll think theres hope that you two will get back together.

Answer 5

Oh im having the same with my ex......kind of went with it for a while, you know just cause it made me feel better about things, but the best thing to do is ignore him cause he obviously wants you back x

Answer 6

don't answer any of his calls or emails..........after a while he will get the hint......as long as you acknowledge them he will think that you are still interested in him...........are you? if you really do love you boyfriend you'll get rid of this guy......nor fair to make him think that he still has a chance with you. just conventrate on your now boyfriend and make it work. the ex already had his chance..

Answer 7

It's simple, don't reply he'll soon get the message. He needs to accept that you are over and the more you reply to him the longer it will take him to get over you.