Met a great guy talked for like 3 weeks and now he won't call or text what do I do?
2006-11-27 06:51:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's really nothing you can do. If you keep calling him, you'll just push him further away and appear desperate, which is an unattractive quality.
Next time, don't "talk" a relationship to death in its early stages. Too much time on the phone is a surefire way to kill romantic sparks. Make a date, hang up the phone and meet in person to see if there is physical chemistry.
If you just give him some space and stop calling, he may decide to call you again. But that's beyond your control so don't sweat it. Move on, girlfriend!
2006-11-27 06:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by NuYawker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its tricky because you dont want to make him think you are a psycho or a stocker.. id say just casually text him once.. and say something like "hope you have a great day" then be patient for about two weeks..Dont call him nor email him nor text him ok? then after two weeks text him again and say something like "i havent heard from you in a while, just wondering if you were ok.." and thats it.. he will eventually call you if not, then juts move on and meet other people. The guy i liked eventually called me and ended up hanging out and stuff it works but if its not meant to be then let him go.. Good Luck!
2006-11-27 06:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by ahuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you are upset/worried.
If you gave more information I would be able to help out better. I have had quite a lot of upsets as far as relationships are concerned so have gained a bit of experience, but with this kind of thing every situation is different.
Best thing for you to do is try to phone him. If you get through to him then you can sort it out directly. If you can't get through to him, just leave a message telling him you miss his "company" and ask him to give you a call or text because you are worried about him. If you don't get any answer back the best thing for you is to try to move on to limit any unhappiness/hurt you are feeling. If he really wants to get in touch with you again, he will find a way, if not, it is best for you to move on. I'm sure there are loads of other guys who like you and you will get over him easier than you think.
Hope this helps and hope things work out for you,
Stephen
2006-11-27 07:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life. If he wants to call or text you he will. He may be having some problems right now and needs time to straighten them out. Or worse case scenario is that he didn't find you as great as you found him. It may be his way of dumping you. Not a very nice way but it may be his way.
Just move on and if he does call or text you then go from there. Don't sit around waiting on him, go out and find someone else.
2006-11-27 06:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by tbears43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you met is on to the next one, time to move on you will be better off.
2006-11-27 07:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by matthew t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chick the same thing happened to me. He told me it was the best date he had ever been on and couldn't wait to see me again. By the time our next date came around he was no where to be found. Take the advice someone else here gave me he's getting it somewhere else.
2006-11-27 06:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried to contact him and he is not responding, then it may be time to move on, but why not try to get a reaction from him, or at least some sort of sign. I mean if you really like him try everything what do you have to lose????
2006-11-27 06:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by WHY!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're able to desire to attend till you meet him and spot if there is any chemistry and if it is going plenty previous that, then whilst the 2d is stable i think of you're able to desire to share with him your well-being heritage in guy or woman. do not grant the variety of tips by an digital mail or chat consultation.
2016-12-29 13:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys I think just act scared to loose someone,,,ur too nice for him..
2006-11-27 06:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't handle a straight-forward, brave woman, then he's not all that great.
Find someone that appreciates your attention.
And also, it sounds like he probably got back together with an ex.
2006-11-27 06:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋