Would you go for it...if you new for a matter of fact you wouldnt get caught???...Would you consider it to be just a "bit of fun"...Or is it just plain wrong???
2006-11-27 06:50:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes...it doesnt go any further than snogging...
2006-11-27 07:04:21 · update #1
And hey...its just a question...I personally wouldnt do it...unless Batman was involved!!!
2006-11-27 07:05:37 · update #2
Here I am to save the day....batman is on his way....
That must be a UK saying as I don't hear it here in the USA..."snogging"..LOL Besides I am too busy fighting crime and keeping to myself in my cave, but I do get out for vamps...it is a bat thing you know...wink ;)
Hey why don't you invite your mate and I invite mine and they can just both watch us "snogging"...then see what they do when it does go further...into "swinging" are you? LOL
2006-11-27 07:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what the rest of yahoo thinks, what matters is what your partner thinks. You or the person you speak of, would have needed to have these boundaries set out before they got married. If it is a big deal to your partner, then you will want to re-assess your feelings. If it isn't a big deal, then there's no problem. I suspect, it is the feeling of "getting away with" a behaviour or the "risk of getting caught" that is more intriguing and satisfying than actually snogging the stranger.
This is one you will have to take up with yourself and your partner. Everyone has a different relationship and the boundaries are set out between the 2 people involved.
2006-11-27 08:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's cheating. Imagine if it was the other way round. I doubt you'd like it if your husband snogged the face of some girl on a lad's night out.
2006-11-27 06:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by b97st 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes definatly cheating!!!
i was engaged and used to go out and snog other guys, at the time i didnt really see the harm in it if my fiance didnt find out.
but now that i am out of that relationship and in a new one, i would never even consider snogging anyone else apart from my boyfriend.
my ex obviously wasnt the one for me so i cheated on him, bad i know but i would never do that now as i am very happy.
2006-11-27 07:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.......hmmm. Its not right but its not the worst thing you could do.. Trouble is does it stop there? and what could happen is every time you go out you are looking to and intend to snog some guy. I would not say it was cheating but I would go as far as to say things cant be that great at home? x
2006-11-27 06:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating.
2006-11-27 06:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this....how would you feel if the tables were turned? Would you think it harmless fun if your fella was getting it on with other girls?
Personally I think it's cheating, I'm not saying that you shouldn't do it (that's for you to decide) but it is cheating!
As for me doing it, the girl would have to be drop dead gorgeous for me to even consider it because there's no point swapping fine wine for cheap plonk is there?
2006-11-27 07:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely say that was cheating. Even if you knew you wouldn't get caught- inside you'd know what you'd done and that would make you feel awful.It would lessen you're own thoughts and respect of your marriage and husband, as well as making your girlfriends think less of you and your marriage. It's not a nice thig to do to a man who loves you. If you're that unhappy- tell your husband and give him the option to even make it better or walk away.
2006-11-27 06:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by DS12221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have the need to do this there is something wrong in your personal relationship. Maybe your partner is not showing you enough affection. I think that its only a matter of time before this leads to infidelity
2006-11-27 07:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep definitely cheating
2006-11-27 07:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Razor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋