I use to be a very big girl. I'm not anymore, but I can totally relate to the BBW of the world. So, guys...just a curious question:
Would you ever date a girl who weighed more than you, if she had a great personality?
2006-11-27 06:50:00 · 16 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. a real man would.
2006-11-27 06:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Our society is changing so fast it is difficult to get a good handle on this question other than my personal belief.
Boys really never grow up, or atleast very few of them. In that case no might be a common answer. On the other hand, woman are beginning to reach an equality within the country that although is still slow moving 20 somethings and young 30's seem to be more mature and understanding of their 1950 - 1980's fathers...
I have indeed dated bigger women... I once was also big too. But I have had women outweigh me... atleast looked like they did.
2006-11-27 15:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam not a guy.....but I think most of them will say no and those who say yes won't be honest. I was never over weight but I have struggled with both anorexia and bulimia since I was 6. And Iam still not satisfied with my weight.It takes a very special man to see through the superficial inside the person in front of him...BTW you look great good job on getting healthy.
2006-11-27 14:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will answer this ..I am a girl...I went to the hair salon on friday..and there was a girl she was big..but sexy..and her boyfriend came to pick her up..he was tall and strappy and they make such a cute couple....and on saturday I was taking the train to go see my guy and there was a couple in the train station ..the girl was a big girl not attractive at all and her guy was skinny but you know what they looked happy and they were kissing and were all over each other..so yes I think that men will date someone that is bigger than they are.
2006-11-27 14:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have that initial attraction thing, before i got married.I always got to know someone before i would date them and i dated 99.9% very good personalities.
I stopped dated the ones that had nasty personalities...But i have to be honest here and go back to the first line i wrote...
I only took time to get to know people i was attracted to...And although i have met alot of big women with great personalities i wouldnt have dated them.I wouldnt have given them time to know the personality. Shallow maybe....But one usually cant help the initial attraction thing.....
2006-11-27 15:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mark A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd wife was 250 I was 150, weight, height etc don't enter into it. Personality does. Some women have a personality that has to be the most effective form of birth control ever developed
2006-11-27 14:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just like you wont date a guy that weighs the same as a whale.. the sex would be awful.. and they dont want to be made fun of by there friends for dating a huge *****, for the rest fo their lives
2006-11-28 18:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by diamondg4u2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to one, and we have been happy for 5 years. You sound like a nice person, who has a lot to offer some lucky man. So to answer your question, sure.
2006-11-27 14:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by wespectmyauthoritah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure would. So would a lot of guys. Mostly the mature ones, though.
2006-11-27 14:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and already have done just that
in high school
and after high school
she was actually three inches taller than me...
love her so much...OH well things got in our way after 8 years of going out...things happen..
your beautiful...and it shows in your smile...
so
smile
good luck
2006-11-28 18:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would have to be one GREAT personality.
2006-11-27 14:52:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋