she wants me out . basically. did we rush things up?
2006-11-27 06:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by luigii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww, bummer...but yea, I think it may have been too soon...but another thing is that while yes, age is nothing but a number, this is typically a critical time in both of your lives/ages - youre just getting your feet wet in all the fun (and not so fun) stuff life as an "adult" has to offer, and she's just getting her feet wet in her sexual peak (which can last for several more years if she's lucky!!). While it was more than likely really fun, exciting, etc., you guys are probably on different planes in life, and these things are better explored (have your fun!!) before jumping into something more serious, such as moving in, etc.
Sorry it didnt work out :-(
2006-11-27 06:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't get to know someone until you live with them. I think all couples should be forced to live together for 6 months before getting married. That way you can really tell if you are compatible or not.
Don't worry about it being rushed. Love doesn't have a time limit, but if you are having problems after moving in together then it is not going to work and you should be glad that you didn't waste a lot of time trying to figure that out.
2006-11-27 06:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by ktan_the_siren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without knowing any of your challenges, all I can say is that living with a person is not an easy thing and many things need to be considered to make it work. For example, compromise, maturity, privacy, patience, cleanliness, comfort and taking initiative are just a few things that I always try to adhere with my now partner that I'm sharing a space. Even though there an age difference which is a challenge unto itself, all the items I've mentioned need to be considered on a daily basis to succeed.
2006-11-27 06:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by floressm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup...too fast. The age difference was going to be a challenge anyway...no way y'all should've moved in together until you'd had a few months (at the very least) to establish how the relationship in general was going to go.
Sorry it didn't work out...learn the lesson(s) and take them forward into your next, less rushed, relationship...
2006-11-27 06:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants you out..then go..its not about rushing stuff bu did you guys get together for the right reasons.
if you got together just bcos of a physical thing..it will never last..
2006-11-27 06:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by nokunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Windows Paintbrush or Adobe Photoshop. Paintbrush is free, so why fork out the cash for Photoshop. Unless you can "borrow" a copy.
2016-05-23 12:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude but yes you moved a little too fast on this one.
2006-11-27 06:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- did you pretent to be someone else?
if you aren't helping her pay the bills and , clean up, and taking care of her needs either sexually, or other wise
I would say - you pissed her off cause of your lack of maturity.
and she has no one to blame but herself.
Think about things first.
Good luck
2006-11-27 06:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too soon. You hadn't even started to get to know each other yet.
2006-11-27 06:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you give a little more info about --What was the start of it falling apart ?
2006-11-27 06:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋