well to simpify things she independent, and she knows i like her..The problem is that she be in some mood swings like to got mad at me because i offered to help her she needed a caculater to do math and i didn't need mine so i let her use it..she looked over and said you don't give something you need to someone. i told her it was ok and then i gave it back. we had a lil arguement about who should use it.. i took it in the end because she said she was gonna put it on the floor.was that an blow off..?She never answers me when i ask to go out and all...But maybe i should give up...I have confidence and all but i'm trying to show her i'm real.. not some body into games...my gut feelin is telling me that she wantin to make me really work for it.. But how can i work for it if she can't tell me or tell me she don't like me.. I don't know anything..and i'm losing patience
2006-11-27 06:28:49 · 8 answers · asked by kevon2356 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion is, since I am a girl, to lay low and don't try so hard to show her how much you are willing to do to have her like you. Sometimes you have to let the other person make the move. You can play hard to get yourself, but some women are so stubborn that it would be years before you hook up. In my past relationships, I was honest with the other person and if I liked them, I was upfront and told them. You can take the "hard-to-get" route too, or just be upfront with her on how you feel and let things take there course. If she wants to be with you, then it will happen, but probably on her terms. When you get older and look back on it, you will see the simplicity of the whole thing, and how you should just be confident and take matters into your own hands=)
Good luck to you!
2006-11-27 06:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by chickxfile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to work through games and mood swings to get someone's attention...let her go...if she digs you, then she'll find a way to let you know...
Hard to get is a childish game, dishonest, and a waste of everyone's time...you either like someone or you don't...you either have interest, aren't sure, or have none...but pretending not to be interested in someone when you really are, is basically a lie...
People who lie aren't worth working to get...
2006-11-27 14:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pry jus give up if she is going to complain when you let her use your stuff that you dont need. it sounds really childish to me but ya. honestly i would just give up on it and move on. maybe if she see's that you are not after her anymore she may start going after u. good luck
2006-11-27 14:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, shes either playin hard to get or she really dosnt like you. you should just keep at it. the worsk she can do is say no.
2006-11-27 14:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls love to play hard to get :] stick with it.
2006-11-27 14:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by luckyplaya23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal
2006-11-27 14:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her! Or else she'll end up cutting you. all of you..........
2006-11-27 14:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by Adam T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loser....youre probably a fat not hot loking guy....
2006-11-27 14:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by eclair_hot3000 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋