has it happened to you that you have a really hot looking girl friend, and feel like attracted to her? I'm quite sure that after being 32 years straight i am not a lesbian, but sometimes i feel kinda attracted to her. I just want to check if this has happened to you too.
2006-11-27 06:20:45 · 20 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being sexually attracted to anyone is completely natural. It does not mean that you are a lesbian-at all!
We are sexual beings, and if you put our being aside
...think about it from a different perspective.
A males internal instinct and drive is to reproduce. Which explains why many man can be promiscuous.
Woman on the other hand are made to reproduce. But because there are so many men out there...we want the BEST offspring possible.
All that I am trying to say, is that some qualities your friend has attracts you to her. Woman are naturally nurturing beings. We love unconditionally.
Your feelings are normal, but can make things uncomfortable.
If you decide to take things further, I recommend talking to your friend. It may ease the situation.
2006-11-27 06:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simply finding another woman attractive doesn't make you a lesbian, after a lifetime of heterosexuality. Read up a bit on homosexuality if that's something you are not clear on.
Yeah, a lot (maybe even most) women find themselves somewhat attracted to another female at some point during their life. Many do nothing about it...some will do some sexual exploration (with that person or someone else) and see if they like women physically as well (or more than) men.
It's quite natural and no big deal.
2006-11-27 06:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure, I even envision women with other women when i fantasize sexually,
But if you are kewl with your ( Gayness )
and the girl is into you go for it.
But most of the time we just have this crazy lesbo ideas in our headsd and never plan to act on it.
Personally i tell my hubby i wouldn'tmind a little lesbo action
but i want Barbie or at least charlize theron.
other than that NO
it totally is a turn off.
Thats how you know your not a lesbian
lesbians think of other women in the lines of normalcy
not unattainable desires.
if your pal is just a regular girl who sexually turns you on because of the stuff she says then,
I am not trying to upset you but you could be BI
And like i said i would totally sleep with charlize theron the thing is i look more like...... well you get the picture.
Charlize if your listening please email me @
Kovasmomma@ yahoo.com
Ahahahahahha!
2006-11-27 06:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea, it's happened to me before. But then I start thinking about it a lot, and realize that there is no way I could actually be in a relationship with a woman. I've kissed a few girls/women and it's nice, definately, but I couldn't really imagine more than that...
2006-11-27 06:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never happened to me... But maybe your heart and mind are wanting something new. have you ever considered that you may be a Bi sexual and that this is the first girl that has brought that out in you? So, if she swings that way try it ya never know what may happen if she isn't just keep your opinions to yourself and have a great friendship
2006-11-27 06:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I haven't been attracted to any female but I did have a close friend of mine once tell me that she was attracted to me. I think it just had to due with the fact that her and I use to spend all our free time together and it was a fase that she was going through.
2006-11-27 06:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It happens to a lot of people. In today's twisted society, its not a surprise that you feel this way about your friend. There are a lot of bad influences out there. But a lot of people feel this way, seriously. You're not alone. Trust. Just make the right decisions. Pick the right sexuality that suits you!
2006-11-27 06:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by 09 _ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh yes!lol.Woman are very beautiful,and sometimes even as a "straight woman",you sometimes can be attracted to other females.It doesnt mean you wanna have sex with them,but they do turn you on a lil bit.Totally normal.It happened with my bestfriend and I.
2006-11-27 06:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes this normal to every one,some times boys are also attracted by other boys though they are not homosex.we are seeing some thing we wanted or we not have, in others.some times it attracts or makes jealous.ur attracted by her bcoz she is hot looking women or by any other u only know.again,its normal,if she interested u can be a les pair in opnion(optional).have a nice day
2006-11-27 06:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by thiru k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it has happened to me too. And, I can assure you that I am not lesbian either.
2006-11-27 06:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋