Is it okay to end a friendship just because u are falling for him/her. I have this dilemma right now, I have a boyfriend and yet.i have fallen in love with a friend. My friend doesnt know, im sure when he knew, he will end the friendship himself, but i cant go on lying...to him..to my boyfriend and to myself.
2006-11-27 06:12:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are in love with a friend, you aren't doing anyone any favors by ending the friendship. You're referring to another person as a boyfriend, indicating that there is no serious legal commitment. End the relationship with your boyfriend -- it isn't fair to him for you to be interested in someone else. Then tell your friend how you feel. He will either reciprocate the feelings or not, but at least you will know.
2006-11-27 06:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Snoopy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you hopefully if it makes you happy will soon learn the best relationships stem from friendships, although some friendships are best left friendships it depends on the attraction level beetween you, but its definately right to let your honast feelings be known and do the right thing but think about it I mean if there is no chance in hell w/the friend becoming a boyfriend and if that being the case you'd like to keep the boyfriend then then dont fix what isnt broke but then again if your not happy you should reveal it wether you have someone else or not rough one huh it will all work out eventually and for the best even though you cant see that right away but you will Good Luck KIMBUR
2006-11-27 14:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....u nevr knw this thing cald---HEART....
WELL,take sm time off frm both-ur frnd n bf. tell 'em u need sm space n time in d relnship. n all this while, take a brk frm ur schedule. relax. n now, ponder ovr d whole thing. wats more imp----
1. ur bf who luves u n trusts u lyk hell
OR
2. THIS FREND U R FALLIN for, whoz nthng bt jst a FRIEND... n u never knw u mite kickk out true luv frm ur lyf, just fer this infatuative feeling uu r getting...
talk to this friend minimal.
thtss all
all u need is TIME.
n decide d best. gudluck!
2006-11-27 14:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would not put your boyfriend through this first of all. IF you dont like him let him go, don't string him along. Follow your heart and be true to yourself and everyone around you.
2006-11-27 14:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i would do is realy tell that friend how you feel and if you love your friend more then your bf then be with him and he dont want you then move on realy and if you love some one else and your bf then thats not right i think you shoould leave him bc if you cared abouthim you would love onother person
2006-11-27 14:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it with you man and try your friend.
LISTEN
LIFE IS TO SHORT. Hearts get broken and relationships get crushed every day.
Follow your heart.
2006-11-27 14:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by remailer000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck . it didn't do any good for me tell the truth. I lost everything when I spoke up. I'm honest still so at least I'm constant
2006-11-27 14:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know......you're miserable if you stay with the guy you don't love, you're miserable if you don't say anything to the guy you might love, I think you should roll the dice and see what you get.
2006-11-27 14:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask your self if the roles were reversed how would you want your boyfriend to handle it.
2006-11-27 14:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart !
2006-11-27 14:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Frank N. S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋