my mother christmas moring noticed the figurine missing. She immediatedly accused my girlfriend. I asked my girlfriend if she took it for that .0.0001% chance that she took it but of course she said no. A week later it was found back in the box it came out of. My mother then accused me of putting it back. Unbelievable so I stopped talking to her and soon moved out and got an apartment. Its a fact that my girlfriend and I didn not take it. The only other people in the house when it was taken was my sister, her husband my mother father and brother. My sis, bro, dad, and bro in law have no motive of taking it. My mom does not like my girlfriend because she Portugese and also because she thinks shes not ladylike and so on. The problem is that it has ruined my relationship with my girlfriend. Nobody really believes me in my family. My sister doesn't know what to believe because my mother and I have both sworn on our lives that we had nothing to do with it. I need like a private detective
2006-11-27 06:11:22 · 4 answers · asked by nike47 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow. Ask your mom what would Jesus do in that situation, maybe she will actually act like a Christian?
2006-11-27 06:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about overkill! What is more important a figurine or good family relationship? Tell your mom she's over reacting and she shouldn't be accusing anyone of something without proof! Also ask her why it's so important for her to keep the family in such disharmony over something that was resolved and what type of message is she sending about family unity --- the important things in life aren't "THINGS" at all !
It seems your mom may have orchestrated this little upset to accomplish just what has occurred --- let your mom know you love her and that she's important to you but you don't want to keep the family upset over what happened in the past and that you are willing to start afresh but if she's going to be unreasonable then she'll have to get use to you not being around.
2006-11-27 06:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you are feeling and I hope that you can get things worked out with your family. We only live for a short time on earth and its too short to angry or upset with someone especially family members. Just put the past behind you and go on with your life. If your family tries to contact you be nice and don't bring up the past. The past is gone and tomorrow is yet to come.
2006-11-27 06:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Demetria S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for her
2006-11-27 06:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋