I met a girl who came up here for a 5 week class.
we are an amazing pair, but she made it clear that the relationship ends when she goes home DEC16th.
We went on a two day trip to Niagara and had a great time, but i will only see her one more time, at her farewell party.
Would you have put yourself out there: because my heart is already broken and she aint even gone yet.
Oh yeah it was the most amazing union i have ever experienced.
2006-11-27 06:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by jawtar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not gonna be easy to let her go.. U let yourself get to involved.. I understand u already have a broken heart.. when she leaves what will u do? I know how it feels.. I guess if i felt the same way about someone i would have done the same as u .. spending as much time as possible with them until they left, but of course after i would hurt.. sorry to hear whats going on but hey hope u have a wonderful holiday
2006-11-27 06:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES !! I would have done the same thing. Who cares if you put yourself out there, and she still leaves. You may have a chance with her when she gets home, and she has some time to think about your relationship. Just keep in touch with her, who knows what will happen.
2006-11-27 14:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say definitely try to keep in touch with her. Maybe she is afraid of long distance relationships? Try to find out the real reason behind her reluctance to continue, and try to offer solutions to it. At least give it a shot so you won't regret not having done anything and watching her go.
2006-11-27 14:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she made it perfectly clear where things stood.
YOU made the decision. Now YOU need to live with it. Doesnt matter what anyone else thinks.
You can still hope that perhaps you mean as much to her and she to you. But DONT hold your breath!
2006-11-27 14:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ccan beg and plead for her to stay in contact but there's on thing i've learned. you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. she did clearly state her intentions. you put yourself out there. if she feels the same way about you as you do about her then she'll keep in contact.
if it's half as good as you say it is then you should do whatever it takes. but as i said before it does have to be mutual
2006-11-27 14:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes two people to make a relationship work and if she doesn't want to be with u then there is nothing u can do but stand back and hope that she changes her mind.
2006-11-27 14:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by ashley_powell_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could'nt you be happy with the sex without the relationship? ok so she was great....get over it, she aint interested in a realtionship!!! and yup i wud play hard to get.....peace out!!
2006-11-27 14:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she already told you her intentions pretty clearly. Play hard to get, she'll come around. Don't chase her away.
2006-11-27 14:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing. If it doesnt hurt try not to see her the last time. that is better trust me.
2006-11-27 14:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've made an ever lasting impression on her...you'll hear from her again...
Good luck!!!
2006-11-27 14:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋