me and this guy have been friends for 5 months and he won't go out with me cause his foster brother likes me and he doesn't want him to know that he likes me, but he wants to have sex with me. What should i do?
2006-11-27 06:11:02 · 24 answers · asked by ashley_powell_07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sees you more as a fvck buddy, if you dont see him like that then stop opening your legs woman!!!
you even said yourself he wont ever go out with you! what do you think you should do?!?!
2006-11-27 06:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my daughter I would ask you if you would be happy with a "boyfriend" who wouldn't take you out and have a real relationship with you.
If you just want a physical relationship with no strings attached then this would be a fine situation for you but I am hoping you have high self esteem and that you know there are better situations and men out there.
Also, you might want to think about the character of a guy who is willing to have sex with a girl his foster brother likes but won't take her out.
2006-11-27 06:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes tough situation you got there i think you should go out with his foster brother unless he is younger than you i mean like teen age but if the other guy wants to do it with you i think its better if you guys don't ya know it would mess up your friendship too and that happened to me and this guy before so definately think about it before you do anything ask yourself is it worth it over a great friendship
2006-11-27 06:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away very fast!!!!!
Trust me, having sex when you are friends with a guy is one sure fire way to end your friendship. Once he gets what he wants, the challenge is over. Wait.
Sex is worth the wait-----just say no to being a ho
2006-11-27 06:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he's using you for sex. A person like that is not worth it at all. He's too chicken, and he wants no commitment. I'd say, move on and find a better man.
2006-11-27 06:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook up with him. Then, tell him that you have someplace that you have to go. Hook up with the Foster Brother, and never speak with either one of them again ! That will work.
2006-11-27 06:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea unfortunately thats usually all they want you for, so do yourself a favor and get rid of him, unless its really good sex!lol
2006-11-27 06:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by BingDung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, wait until you are in a relationship. if he likes/loves you enough to have sex, then he will love you enough to tell his foster bro.
2006-11-27 06:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by cella<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL HOW LOD ARE OYOU SEEM LIKE YOU ARE A CHILD AND YOU SHOULDN'T WORRY ABOUT BOYS LET ALONE AND IF YOU ARE NOT A KID THAN YOU NEED TO GET SOME SORT OF HELP CUZ YOU ARE PLAYING A LITTLE KIDS GAME
2006-11-27 06:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by vicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you need to move on. Why would you waste your time with someone who can't be honest. Your good enough to have sex with but your not good enough to date?? !!
2006-11-27 06:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋