How do you let someone know how you feel about them if they won't answer the door when you visit and thier pho

Question

Do you just give up and pretend it doesn't matter anymore? I need advice can feel myself sinking into kind of a place I really don't want to be.

Answer 1

If I were you, I would right a letter of endearment. Yeah, wow, no technology involve? It's right there in perminant black ink. Write a letter telling the person how much they mean to you, tape a flower (their favorite of course) to the envelope, and leave it at their doorstep. Give a couple days, if you dont get a response in 3 days, give them a call, and ask them if you should still hold the love within you for them, or if it's time to let them go. I spoke to my girlfriend (we were in a big fight), and she was basicly telling me that she was saying goodbye. I told her exactly how I felt, and how much I loved her. We finally finished the conversation after a couple hours. I couldn't sleep. At around 4 am, I went to the store, got the nicest looking rose I could find, went to her house, in 18 degree weather with icy roads, and put a flower at her doorstep for her to find when she left for work. Unfortunately in my situation, it didnt work as well as I hoped. Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Curious what a pho is?

If something matters, you can't pretend that it doesn't.

Lots of beer can help you ignore it for a few hours but then you stil feel it later, maybe even more.

You should try to get in touch with who you are and your inner strengths so you won't sink. With or without friends.

Answer 3

Hey I think that u could send that person a note through the mail as anonymous and if that person doesn't answer u yet then maybe leave a message on thier email. I wouldn't give up until u know for sure how that person feels.

Answer 4

Wow, if this person isn't contacting you anymore then just let it go even though it will be hard especially if you liked them a lot. I mean if it has been a week, maybe there is an explaination like a death, but, if this is on going then maybe it's over and that person doesn't know how to tell you. Just go on living life, like go shopping for something cute for ya, to make you feel better and if this person comes around they come around. But, never let then know your hurting, and definelty stop trying to call or stop over to their house. Good Luck!

Answer 5

I think you need to step back and understand that not everyone you like or love or are attracted to, will feel the same about you. You have to accept that you might need to just move on. Keep yourself busy and remember that time heals all wounds. I'm sorry things didn't work out the way you wanted.

Answer 6

To be honest with you...I never answer my door and all my friends know that. If you do not let me know that you are coming over to visit, than forget it...I refuse to answer the door. I live in the big city and I don't need someone stalking me!

Answer 7

Maybe it's time to accept that the other person justdoesn't feel the same way. No sense in wastin gyour feeling if they're not reciprocated.

You sound kinda like a stalker...maybe you need help.

Answer 8

You have to learn to let go. As hard as it is......leave that person alone.....if they see you are not coming around anymore, the powerful feeling of ignoring you no longer has anymore power.

My suggestion is, if you REALLY NEED to get this off your chest....write a letter. Either keep it or send it.

Answer 9

You have no confidence in yourself or self respect. You have the patterns of a stalker. You shouldn't visit unless invited. Buy a clue.

Answer 10

well if they are not answering the door or the phone and are avoiding you then I suggest moving on, because if you keep it up you might be arrested for stalking. Apparently they don't want nothing to do with you.