I just recently ended a relationship with someone who i been with for 5 plus years. Within a week of my long term relationship ending i meet someone wonderful we been seeing each other for about 3 weeks. From my understanding she defintly wants a relationship but is it to soon for me to dive into another one?
2006-11-27 06:06:18 · 8 answers · asked by Newlyone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally,it so happens that when we get off one,we feel too lonely and desperate to have a mate by us.This urge often leads us to make some wrong decisions.Its like we are keen to bridge the loss instantly.I do believe that you have found a wonderful person indeed.but you need to give some time for yourself before you dive in coz you are just out of a long term relationship.Only you can decide when to dive in ,that is when you are truely ready.Meanwhile,just maintain a good friendship with new person.
2006-11-27 06:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the new someone really likes you they will understand if you want to hold off and just be friends for a bit. Just be honest with them and tell them how you feel. Who knows maybe you will get over it quicker after being open with them and you might just have found your perfect soul mate.
Just my thoughts.
2006-11-27 06:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Charles G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not too soon. In fact, it might be best to dive in just to make it easier to forget the past one.
Just....try not to burden your new love with the after-effects of the old one. Women don't like to be reminded about past ex's.
2006-11-27 06:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are ready for another relationship, then give it a go. If you are still not over your ex or if your heart isn't into it. Tell her you need more time.
2006-11-27 06:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think your happy with her and seems so contended then go feel free you deserve to be happy, past is past though you still remember your ex that's ok and normal, if you think your not using your new one just to forget your past then go have a relationship
2006-11-27 06:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by merlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it feels right...my advice is take it as it comes and don't think about it just do it!!!
Sometimes you just have to live in the moment.
2006-11-27 06:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pass up what could be something real because of a time limit.
2006-11-27 06:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not if u r an idiot. be a playa and don't get played!
2006-11-27 06:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋