my girlfriend thinks that i'm dating her just for fun but i really do love her , how do i prove to her that i go out with her cuz i love her?
2006-11-27 06:02:50 · 11 answers · asked by midodisho 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told her that i love her and we go out now , but she not sure that i love her yet
2006-11-27 06:08:17 · update #1
Tell her.
2006-11-27 06:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you treating her like you love her? Do you put her first, do you do nice things for her? Have you given her any reason not to think that you care about her? If you have done all of these things then tell her to relax. Say, listen, I really do love you and I wish you would just see that. I have been trying to prove it to you and there is nothing more I can do. Either you have to beleive in me and this relationship or you can keep wondering why I am with you and drive yourself crazy, which will probably ruin our relationship.
If she still does not get it, hate to tell you buddy then she has some issues she might have to work out on her own.
2006-11-27 06:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , I would set up a romantic night out just the two of you no one else in sight..... Have a dinner waiting an some of her favorite music.... afterwards I would tell her that if she just wanted to stay home every weekend an be with me alone that I will be fine with that.. Tell her how she makes you feel and how you feel when you are without her..... She will see all the effort you put into the night and she will finally see you love her for her and not just because you wanna have fun with her Good Luck with your situation.
2006-11-27 06:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go all out for her. buy her roses, rent a limo, make her favorite dinner, rent her favorite movie, write her a poem. idk. it's hard to prove love. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i know he loves me because he respects me, listens to what i say, does little things for me that i know he hate doing (like shopping). he remembers little things too. like the anniversary of our first kiss, my favorite kind of flowers, my favorite kind of food. he knows i hate the song "let the bodies hit the floor" cuz that was on the radio when i crashed my car. he buys me little things if he goes to the grocery store just because he knows i'd like it (like cosmopolitan magazine). so i guess it's just all the little things that add up to prove you love and care for someone. love isn't all about sex. it's about being best friends first and knowing you'll always be there for each other. so do something romantic for her and keep sex out of the evening. tell her you want to show her you love her and you don't have to have sex to do so. have a nice long talk. talking keeps the relationship healthy. tell her what it is that she does that makes you happy or why she makes you a better person just by being with her. take her out to where you went on your first date and tell her what you remember about that night. do you remember what she was wearing? something she said? the way she smelled? her beautiful smile? just spill your soul to her and if she still thinks you're dating her for fun and not for love try it all over again. the more you do for her the more she'll realize it's love.
2006-11-27 06:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a dozen wild flowers, but only send her one a day with a love note attached to the flower and call each card 12 Reasons Why I'm In Love w/You and on day 1 send her the first flower with a card that reads the first reason why I'm in love with you.., day 2 the second reason why I'm in love w/you and so on until day 12. I think by day 12 she'll be convinced tell how it works out!!!
2006-11-27 06:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_journey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like the queen she is, but don't be a pushover. Buy her a flower, or a stuffed animal. If you show you appreciate her and show that you love her, she will know that you really do love her. Actions speak louder than words.
2006-11-27 06:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell her that you LOVE her, and if that isn't enough then I recommend a nice romantic evening and try again...If she is still in denial then tell her to check herself.
2006-11-27 06:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by kitten30fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what you can do for her to feel loved by you.
2006-11-27 06:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Collared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find out why she thinks you do not love her.
2006-11-27 06:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you really feel, and ask her if she would want something more out of this relationship, and for your's and her sake just do it
2006-11-27 06:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to what you say, if she thinks your dating her for fun, then she's dating you for fun too. make her like you. make her attracted to you FOR REAL. then let her know that you are for real.
2006-11-27 06:12:09 · answer #11 · answered by SoConfuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋