help pleases?

Question

i am use to being in a relationship, and it is hard for me to be alone. why am i like this?

Answer 1

It's normal to feel like that like you said your use to being in relationships the word says it your (use to it). When you do things for a long period of time that's what's normal to you but be patient and enjoy this time alone start doing things you never did when you had a relationship get involved in something that interests you and you will be surprise how much you discover about yourself. When the time comes you will be in a relationship again, and you'll bring with you more experiences and things that can help you in building a new relationship.

Answer 2

It's got to do with habit, you got used to being with someone and now that person's gone you're probably feeling a little empty, it's normal. The best way to get away from that is not to wallow, find stuff to do, start enjoying the pleasures of being by yourself, do stuff you like to do but weren't doing because that other person didn't like, you can also make new friends, expand your circle of friends, try new things whether it's sports or academic.

Try meeting new people, go out with old friends or new friends you wouldn't usually go out with and see what they do,maybe you'll find some interesting stuff to add to your personal habits and lifestyle.

DO NOT think about what you would or could be doing with this person you used to have, instead think about the stuff you wish to do and how you plan to take them into action.

Enjoy yourself for a while!

Answer 3

that's in the human nature
and as ya said u r used
i know what it means by being alone
but don't go into a relation ship just because of the need
you need to be wit some one that ya really want to be wit
so don't rush into anything right now
u need some time alone and ya have the chance
see what ya really like to do alone or wit friends
life is more than just being in a relation ship
try to collect ur self
hence the one ya really need will notice ya even more
or ya will notice her more clear
anyway good luck

Answer 4

Most people who are this way either are very insecure or don't have much else going on in their lives. You can cure both by exploring your interests and trying out some of the things that you've always wanted to but haven't yet. Doing this will not only make your life more fun and interesting but also make it more likely to meet someone who shares your interests. Additionally, if you love your life are living it to the fullest they will find you much more attractive.

Answer 5

It is natural. Humans are by definition social animals. So, I would suggest that you mingle with people that you have common interests with. Try to be funny and supportive of others. That ought to get you in a new relationship in no time at all.

Answer 6

stand in front of the mirror and ask yourself that same question!!! maybe you are looking in the wrong place.......you must have been brought up in a clingy environment whereby you always had your parents or siblings around you that is why you cannot be left alone otherwise you have been alone all your young life and know you crave company....thats my opinon....

Answer 7

hey i understand you i'm not use to being single i'm used to always having someone its hard and your this way because your probably not use to being alone eventually it gets easier it just takes time being alone

Answer 8

U have never been on your own.. U are used to having someone with u everyday. I know what it feels like, but be on your own.. It feels good.. U have space.. no one to crowd u and tell u what to do.. U answer to no one but u!!! I want someone again though.. Its like u enjoy the company.. good luck to u and happy holidays

Answer 9

well, if your used to being in a relationship, you also must be used to finding people to go out with. go out and meet people. make new friends and get 2know people. you'll see someone you like. gud luck.

Answer 10

You don't like to be alone...hows that work for you...