i wud say my relationship with him is quite serious, he made a confession to me.
he told me that he had slept with four prostitutes before he met me.
he decided to tell me becuase he did want me to find out in the long term and wanted to get it of his chest.
can u give me your opinions on what you think?
2006-11-27 05:56:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what would you do in my position, would u be totally freaked out and dump the guy, or try to fix things?
thanks by the way for all the answers.
2006-11-30 04:54:52 · update #1
Its great that your boyfriend came clean about his past and what he did. Besides, its best to keep that communication going between the two of you and don't keep secrets from each other. I know it can be startling at first, but at least he was being honest about it. I think you two should stay together, because he was man enough to admit what he did in the past, came clean about it, and was honest!
2006-11-27 06:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not okay with it. You keep saying you are, but you're obviously not. If you were okay with it, it wouldn't hurt so much. Btw, your boyfriend, however nice a guy he might be, was completely in the wrong and should not have done that. He cheated on you. For a bet. That's pretty stupid, and it was extremely insensitive of him. You need to talk to him and tell him how hurt you are and that it wasn't okay. Time is the only thing that will make it better, and your boyfriend working to rebuild some trust with you.
2016-05-23 12:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard not to judge him on this. The problem is one of health and repitetion.
I assume that you REQUIRED him to have health screening BEFORE you and he were anything mroe than friends. If not, then STOP, and get it done. You MUST know this part.
Additionally, once a person does this type of thing, it becomes much easier to do it again. What is to stop him from doing it when you piss him off, or any other reason?
Can you trust him?
There are SO many other men out there that are more deserving of your love and time. Why would you want to walk into this kind of thing?
What if you end up togeather and it happens later? how wil you feel knowing you knew ahead of it all?
There are just to many negatives here.
Good luck, but my advice: Tell him you are sorry for him, and that you want to move on.
2006-11-27 06:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Scott D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has skeletons in there closet, some people aren't as bad as prostitutes, but hey people have them, he must really like you, if he totally came out and told you this, that isn't something you share with someone who think is cool, if you can get over that part, and he isn't ever going to a lady of the night, (or day) again, then you might have something, if not move on
2006-11-27 06:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all please go see your obgyn and tell them exactly what your boyfriend said so they can test you for various stds. Then I would sit down with him and have a long talk. Find out why he went to the prostitutes, was he just wanting sex, was he using protection, does he have a fascination with prostitutes? Get informed before you act. Take care of your body first and ask questions later.
2006-11-27 06:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can see where it might bother you... As long as he didnt give you an STD and/or is still banging whores I'd try to forget about it. Lots of guys get the itch so bad they use a prostitute. Just make sure he isn't still doing so....
2006-11-27 06:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its good that he came out and told you about it but why he wait so long to tell you. And also is he still sleeping with prostitutes that's the question you need to ask him.
2006-11-27 06:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Qui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be sure that your boyfriend wont do it again,, sleeping with prostitutes!! anyway I think he's honest to you because he has the courage to say all those past memories that happens to him so dont confused and worried just trust him, but if he fails to be honest with you get lost!!!
2006-11-27 06:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by merlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a good sign that he is being honest with u. that shows that he cares about u and doesnt want their to be any secrets between yall
With Love from God,
Joshwea and best of luck
2006-11-27 05:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by moNAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check to see if he has any STD's. Get yourself checked out just in case.
I'm also saying not all street workers have them but it's still good to get checked out.
2006-11-27 05:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋